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    Barbara1098 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 24, 2007, 06:49 AM
    A friends betrayal!
    Ok I have a problem. I met this girl at the library and we became friends. Well she
    Started calling me nonstop and showing up at my house. Well I gave her a second chance. I nonstop this guy I liked and she found out and at first she was encouraging me
    To pursue him. I later found out she found his number and was nonstop pranking him
    For about a week. He blamed me which I admitted because I knew he would never believe me on what really happened. I later found out she was pranking other males that were in
    My phone. She got their number s on my cell phone. Well my male friends believed me
    Because they know she is crazy, but the guy I like doesn't know that . How can I explain this story to him on what really happened. This woman I found out is jealous of me and
    Wants me all to her self. The reason I found out it was her pranking because she admitted to me what she did. What should I do?
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    Aug 24, 2007, 06:56 AM
    Show the guy u like this website so that he can see what u just wrote and then he will know the truth... You shouldn't be blamed for something that isn't your fault.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 07:02 AM
    I don't see why he wouldn't believe you if you said it wasn't you who pranked him. I'd also "break up" with this friend. She sounds a little bit off.

    In the future remember honesty is the best policy. If this guy doesn't believe you then he's not as great of a guy as you think.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 07:10 AM
    Hi, I actually told him it was me because I didn't think he would believe me. I told him I was nervous that's why I kept hanging up. I later found out that my friend was not only pranking him but other male friends of mine.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 07:15 AM
    I love women, don't get me wrong, but it seems that at least some of you can be very strange. I just don't understand why some women treat other women the way they do. It is perplexing.

    Anyway, I agree with both suggestions, but if any of your guy friends are acquaintances of the guy you like, have one of them mention it. I'm not saying let others do what you should do yourself, but they could at least hint at the problem. Good Luck.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 07:23 AM
    Get rid of the crazy friend, and let the guys know the truth, covering for her was a bad move, and now you will suffer her consequences. She was wrong for doing it, and you were wrong for lying about it.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 08:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Barbara1098
    Ok I have a problem. I met this girl at the library and we became friends. Well she
    started calling me nonstop and showing up at my house. Well I gave her a second chance. I nonstop this guy i liked and she found out and at first she was encouraging me
    to pursue him. I later found out she found his number and was nonstop pranking him
    for about a week. He blamed me which I admitted because i knew he would never believe me on what really happened. I later found out she was pranking other males that were in
    my phone. She got their number s on my cell phone. Well my male friends believed me
    because they know she is crazy, but the guy I like doesn't know that . How can i explain this story to him on what really happened. This woman i found out is jealous of me and
    wants me all to her self. The reason I found out it was her pranking because she admitted to me what she did. What should I do?
    Set her up. Tell your crush about the situation and then set it up where she pranks him and he's aware. Like he gets pranked, he calls youand asks you if you did it then stay on the phone with him and wait till it happens again. Or call her on 3 way with him on the line and ask her if she's pranked him lately.
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