[uzma akhtar]

Hi I just wanted to make sure that I have a friend who I think really likes me but I am not sure whether he loves me or not? How to be sure about it please help me out in this matter its been a year since we know each other but I'm not sure? What do you suggest?

[sGt HarDKorE]

Well when I like someone, I either have a hard time talking to them like I am nervous or I just talk really fast and look like an idiot. I would say ask his friend. Hang out with him and see if he passes you ang signals, but you need to look like you want them, not like a slut, but you can't look to serious and you need to make him less nervous by being funny and just listen to him. That's how I find out if the person I like likes me. It is also a good way to pass on to him vibes that you like him. Hope this helped!

[FrOsT_bItE]

Some people tell me that when a guy or girl likes you, they start acting really stupid around you. (ie- Yell at you for no particular reason) But sometimes that guy or girl could be really calm and do nice things instead of acting like an idiot. I love reading girlfriend and many girls ask this question so not to fear, for I am here! I now quite a lot about this. Research shows that by doing things like pretend to slide you hand on his, put your hand on his shoulder and smile a lot can give a guy a vibe that you can have a chance together. So ask him if he's busy this weekend or get a friend to ask him to go with a small group of friends (about one or two... don't forget to include you!) Oh, and the best thing is to smile. I remember when I was in high school I had a chance to go out with this amazing guy, but I it was like my smile had faded and all that was left was a frown. I later found out that he said to one of his friend's that he would ask me out if I smiled more. So, the best thing to do is SMILE! Because it can show that your happy, friendly and nice.

[nicespringgirl]

Take notice of how many times he looks at you. Do you catch his eye every time you glance at him? If he is looking at you frequently and flashes his pearly whites when you look at him, there is definitely some interest on his part. A quick turn of his head when you've caught him looking at you is also a good sign.

Check with your friends. Guys often take a greater interest in a girl's friends as a way to get closer to her. Find out if he is asking about you when you are not around. Sometimes guys are too shy to express their interest in you, so they will go about it in a roundabout way.

Don't be offended if he is teasing or making fun of you. Guys are funny this way. Sometimes they do not know how to express themselves to their love interest, so they go about it by making up silly nicknames or teasing. Some guys will make fun of their friends in front of their crush to appear funny.

Take a step into a guy's personal space. If he likes you, he will welcome this closeness with you. If he backs away, this is a definite sign that he is not interested in a relationship with you.

Ask him out on a date. If he accepts, you'll know he is interested. If a guy rejects a date without a good reason, he is probably not seeking a relationship with you.

Think back on conversations you have had with him. Does he remember the little things that you said? Guys remember little insignificant pieces of conversations when they like you. They are letting you know that they are interested in everything about you. This is a good sign of his desire to have a relationship with you.

Ask him. If all else fails, let him know your feelings. After you have shared yours, ask him how he feels about you. Try not to act outwardly hurt if his feelings are not the same as yours; after all, you asked him. This is a great way to get hesitant guys to share their feelings and open up.

I hope all these will hep you find out. Good luck:)