[Lost Soul 2008]

When your boyfriend did'nt want a relationship anymore but still loves you and wants to be single.He wants me to give him space and says he would try again when he's ready. :confused:

[COOKIE MONSTER]

Hun keep yourself bizi that's the best way to help you get over a lot of things bizi bizi bizi

[xxtwincambabyxx]

The same happened to me and I rang him constantly and annoyed him but we eventully got back and I have lernd don't let it bother you that much it will be very hard but try not to think of it and let him think you don't care and he will run after you

[COOKIE MONSTER]

Get anew hobbie,sewin,drawing,paintin,decorate,rearange your furniture,restore old furniture,go to the cinema with friends or to dinner or go and have afew but not to many drinks,join the gym,take up cycling,have afew dinner partys

And what reason did he give you? Or was that it he needs sum space

[Lost Soul 2008]

Whoa you guys answered fast,thank you. But yeah he said he needed space. We been together for a year in a half. We're both 18

[COOKIE MONSTER]

18 is still young to be having along term serious relationship theirs abig world out their that you've not seen and sum things you have to do yourself like finding yourself and maybe your boyfriend just needs some time to find his self and to figure out what he wants from life and what he's going to do with his life I found myself at 18 asking myself the same questions,I was taking a lot of drugs,pills,coke,ket,acid,smokin pot,mushis,speed just to get away from all myproblems and worries.myauntie sent me aticket to visit myfamily in ireland I spent aweek with myfamily and while I was in ireland I had adream that I was running down atunnel I got to assign and across road left or right but the sign had no directions I woke up and asked myself what I wanted from life and myawnser to myself was I didn't no,I had to find myself,afew months went past and I was still asking myself questions then one mornin I woke up and decided to move to ireland I told all myfriends had drug partys for afew weeks I kissed mybestfriends goodbye and I found myself I'm not depressed anymore I don't take drugs anymore thanks to mykids and I have 2 wonderful boys and I have areally great boyfriend and anice house but if I had stayed I could have been dead now but it took me years to find myself and be happy for who I was who I no and new and except what life throws at me and deal with it best I can. It took me so long to find myself because I didn't really no what I was looking for the drugs clouded mymind and the person people thort I was and the person I thort I was wasn't really me at all but now I've eventually found me I'm glad I did and I'm glad it took me so long

Your boyfriend probably just needs abit of space to find himself and to figure out how he feels and what he wants from life give him afew days and if he doesn't ring you ,you ring him I hope this helps

[Lost Soul 2008]

It really does help,thank you. I just know that I want to be happy by myself, I don't want to depend on anyone or anything for happiness. It is really hard to let go though. I don't know how to get over. Because there is a possibility that we might not get back together and I just don't want to think about him and just focused on myself,but it's really hard to get him off my mind when I know he should'nt be there.