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startover22 · Aug 16, 2007, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

The best thing about AMHD is the great advice I had gotten here when my ex fiance broke up with me 6 months ago,again. Without that great advice I think I would still be sitting and staring at the wall and very hurt. I Am so much better the when I joined 5 months ago. I have taken the advise here and tried to apply thru my hurtful situation. Now I get the satisfaction and the honor to apply what I have gone thru and the knowledge I have gotten from my fellow posters who have helped me.

Awsome, SAB, that is wonderful!

nicespringgirl · Aug 17, 2007, 07:05 AM

I am also learning things that I don't need to worry until I get old, very educating.:)
Get well prepared for my future!

startover22 · Aug 17, 2007, 07:08 AM

Originally Posted by nicespringgirl

I am also learning things that I don't need to worry until I get old, very educating.:)
Get well prepared for my future!!

To say the least, you are a wonderful soul. Smart, funny, pretty, and compassionate! Keep up the good work sweet. Start

CaptainRich · Aug 17, 2007, 07:29 AM

Originally Posted by nicespringgirl

I am also learning things that I don't need to worry until I get old, very educating.:)
Get well prepared for my future!!

Oh, you're not going to want to worry... For me, worry never changed anything but my hair color.
Assign everything that concerns you just so much time and when you've done your best, let fate do the rest.

J_9 · Aug 17, 2007, 07:40 AM

The best thing that happened to me here was a girl who was having stomach pains. She said she could not be pregnant. After being here with her for an hour, I got her to log off and go to the hospital as she was clearly in labor (she was 17).

Although she could NOT be pregnant, I got a picture of a beautiful mother and baby daughter via e-mail the next week.

firmbeliever · Aug 17, 2007, 07:46 AM

Awwww...
That's sweet and sad at the same time...
Does her family know?

J_9 · Aug 17, 2007, 09:05 AM

I'm pretty sure they know now. That was this past fall, LOL Baby would almost be close to a year old by now.

Canada_Sweety · Aug 17, 2007, 09:10 AM

Probably my fav part of AMHD is being able to learn from other people on day to day subjects but also being able to help others with their problems... knowing you can make a difference is actually pretty rewarding within itself:)

firmbeliever · Aug 17, 2007, 09:16 AM

I love it when I hear from anyone that my post helped.
It warms me knowing that I helped in my own small way to make life a little easier for someone I do not even know...

CaptainRich · Aug 18, 2007, 11:59 AM

... and it beats staying home... LOL

CaptainRich · Oct 18, 2007, 06:10 AM

Bringing this forward...

... And to also say that being on here has allowed me to meet many good people and learn about myself.

Interesting dicussions and sometimes a little sparring. Rarely is it boring!

Chery · Oct 18, 2007, 06:40 AM

Being able to help others who are going through phases that we can help them with.

Being part of a wondersul international family. Having friends who support you more than the friends I thought I had who help me get back up when I'm down and depressed.

I love you all.

firmbeliever · Oct 18, 2007, 06:42 AM

All the free love I get from here... ;)

CaptainRich · Oct 18, 2007, 06:45 AM

Originally Posted by Chery

Being able to help others who are going through phases that we can help them with.

Being part of a wondersul international family. Having friends who support you more than the friends I thought I had who help me get back up when I'm down and depressed.

I love you all.

Chery, you could use a hug! We've got plenty to go around!
My thoughts are with you! Anytime!

CaptainRich · Oct 18, 2007, 06:46 AM

Originally Posted by firmbeliever

All the free love I get from here...;)

Free love! Sharing our collective thoughts and lives!

friend4u178 · Oct 21, 2007, 04:34 AM

Good post Captain
I came on here a few months ago when I was going through a bit of a tough time , I got lots of good advise and it really helped me get through it. Since then I come back and try to give some input back and hopefully help afew people understand not only what I've been through but hundreds of others. If it helps just afew its well worth it. Unfortunatelely I don't get the chance to get on here as much as some of you but love the interaction , you guys are Brilliant!!

Chery · Oct 21, 2007, 11:32 AM

The free love and support from here is such a blessing.

Unfortunately, what's not free are medical bills, rent, telephone and internet fees and groceries.
This is what I am currently having a lot of trouble with due to my piled up bills and welfare check of only 600 Euro. I have applied for medical retirement but that will take six months and I don't know if I will live that long. I have been told that by the 25th I will probably not have net access or telephone anymore, so I will not be able to spend much time with my AMHD family in the future.
My daughter helps me with groceries and lets me spend time with my grandson. My two brothers have problems of their own in Afghanistan and Las Vegas, so I cannot expect much help there. My BF rejected me due to my recent diagnosis so I can no longer use his computer.
I know that there are people in this world a lot worse off than myself, but this is happening to me and it makes me very angry and very hurt. So much so, that I don't want to prolong this degrading and demeaning condition. I used to be proud of who I am and happy to be alive, but these past two years have made me see things differently. There is no dignity to this and I don't see any light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope that it does not take long for it all to end. I've already been told that surgery is too late and that it might have spread through nerves and into my head, so chemo is out for me too.

I'm not giving up and intend to raise some hell while still around and will surely not let anyone push me around anymore or put me in the corner of a hospital room for my relatives to pay for.

I love you all and wish you all the best. And I will stay online as long as possible.

startover22 · Oct 21, 2007, 11:35 AM

Oh no Chery... Noooo...
I like my Chery... I want you to be able to talk about things, and share good times with us... It will be very important for you to be able to do that!

firmbeliever · Oct 21, 2007, 11:50 AM

OOH Chery,
I feel for you.

Me, not having so much trouble find this site a moral booster with all your love and have come to sort of depend on it a lot.I can understand how much more all the people here must mean to you chery.

I hope there are better times ahead for you.

HUGGGGS

Chery · Oct 21, 2007, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by firmbeliever

OOH Chery,
I feel for you.

Me, not having so much trouble find this site a moral booster with all your love and have come to sort of depend on it a lot.I can understand how much more all the people here must mean to you chery.

I hope there are better times ahead for you.

HUGGGGS

You guys are making me cry, and maybe it's good for me because I've kept so much inside.
I don't plan on giving up till my last breath, and I hope that I can be here on AMHD for as long as possible. I promise I will try not to be too morose, but I guess today just overloaded me.

Thanks so much for being here for me and letting me vent. I will keep you posted as much as I can.