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Oct 23, 2010, 02:10 PM
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Is having an intervention with your friends to get a guy out of the closet to far
Is having an intervention with your friends to get a guy out of the closet to far?
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Oct 23, 2010, 02:15 PM
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You need to stay out of it entirely and mind your own business.
He will come out the closet when HE is ready!
Leave him alone and don't even think about trying to force him, it should be his decision as to when/how/where.
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Oct 23, 2010, 02:19 PM
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Do you mean "intervention"?
If that's what you mean, yes, it is going too far. It would be cruel and mean. Allow your friend to come out of the closet when he or she feels comfortable to do so.
He may not even be IN the closet.
There was a recent news story of a fellow and his friend who forced a roommate out of the closet. The roommate was horribly embarrassed and upset, and then committed suicide.
No. Mind your own business.
P.S. You would be much more productive if you studied spelling instead of worried about your friend.
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Oct 23, 2010, 02:44 PM
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That's a big hell yes, its going to far, and none of your freakin' business. How dare you mess into someone else's life against there will!! :mad:
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Oct 23, 2010, 02:54 PM
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That is a big decision to make, and only for that one person to make. You do not know the barriers someone goes through. They may have fears and they should NEVER be forced to share that part of their life. It is no one's business, not even yours. That does not make him who he is... our sexuality does not define us, so leave him alone, let him live his life happy, and he will do what he wants. The best thing is to be non judgemental and supportive if he ever does want to talk about his sexuality. Until then, define him as a great man and friend.
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Expert
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Oct 23, 2010, 04:42 PM
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Stay out of it, it is only the persons choice and none of your business
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Welbeing Expert
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Oct 23, 2010, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by chilirad
Is having an intervention with your friends to get a guy out of the closet to far?
YES!
Leave the poor guy alone.
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New Member
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Oct 25, 2010, 02:12 AM
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Please try to be a little wiser and not be so terrible to people I really hate being so straight forward but you are like violating this person don't mess with innocence or you will be burned
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