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    Unhappy007 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 26, 2011, 01:47 AM
    Should I stay or should I go?
    We have been together for 7 years and things were great.
    Till I caught an STD and then found out he was cheating on me. I found out February 2010
    We said we would work though it. But since moving last year he does not sleep in our bed we have very little physical contact and no sex since November 2010.
    I have just had our first baby and we both have children from previous relationships
    I have not gone off sex and I still want him even after all the heart ache I have forgiven him.
    I try talking to him but he changes the subject.
    He talks to the mother of his child more than me and her home is like a shrine to him.
    I think I know I should walk away but something is holding me back.
    He sits away from us as a family sleeps in the couch never comes out with me and since there is no work in his trade has sat on his ***. To top it off I think he only stayed with me cause of the baby the first month of my pregnancy he was still in contact with the one he cheated on me with.
    Seeing this in black and white makes me know what I should do and that is walk away
    I should walk away?
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    Jun 26, 2011, 02:10 AM

    Yes-get child support and custody sorted and walk away.

    You and your children deserve much better.
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    Jun 26, 2011, 12:54 PM

    How long ago did you deliver your last child, and how many children live with you? How old are you both, and have you had follow ups with your doctor?
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    Jul 9, 2011, 05:25 PM
    Walk away fast. This guy has been emotionally and physically out of the relationship a long time ago. He may be on your couch but that is the extent and he is taking advantage of that. He sounds like a real piece of work. He gives you a disease, you forgive him and he still has the audacity to take advantage of you with children. Take the steps you need to take so when his lazy self does obtain employment you are able to gain support for you family even if they have to garnish his wages. Please realize there are lots of men out there and you do not deserve this... sorry to say... trashy treatment. Good luck to you.
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    Jul 9, 2011, 05:42 PM

    Some things can be saved, why is he not sleeping in bed with you ? Why will he not sit with the family.

    Will you and he consider marriage counseling ?
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