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    Should I stay with my girlfriend

    Asked Feb 22, 2012, 03:19 PM 6 Answers
    So I been dating this girl for a while now and I do love her. She tells me she's fallen for me, but I have not, because me, and her have the same number of sex partners. And knowing that It bugs me because I feel as she's a hoe, and I don't want to be with a girl who's slept with the same amount as me. So I need to know should I move on, or try to keep her in my life.

    Last edited by talaniman; Feb 25, 2012 at 02:42 PM.
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    mmresd Posts: 2,001, Reputation: 553
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    Feb 22, 2012, 04:52 PM
    If it bothers you that much then break up with her, and move on to the next one, it doesn't sound like a difficult task for a player such as yourself ;P... However if you like her, and the relationship is going good, why does the past matter? Why are you even asking about it? Just tell her to not tell you anything, don't tell her anything about that to her, and live in the now, not the past.
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    Cat1864 Posts: 8,007, Reputation: 3686
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    Feb 22, 2012, 06:00 PM

    You have already answered your own question. You don't want a relationship with someone who you see as a 'hoe'. So move on and allow her to find someone who cares about the person she is instead of her past.
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    indya Posts: 357, Reputation: 58
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    Feb 22, 2012, 09:57 PM
    Move on. I hope she does. Break up with her. How is it that a girl is a hoe if she has had equal number of sex partners as you had? Does being a guy make you better than her? I you've slept with a lot of girls, you cannot expect your girlfriend to be a nave virgin, can you?

    Anyway, to answer your question, the past of this girl will always be at the back of your mind and keep bothering you. So the best move is to move on.
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    talaniman Posts: 53,174, Reputation: 10821

    Feb 25, 2012, 02:45 PM
    I fail to see how a hoe such as yourself is offended by being with another hoe like you think she is.

    Of course you do her a big favor and leave until you figure out the difference between life, and BS!!
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,744, Reputation: 2595
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    Feb 25, 2012, 03:33 PM
    I find your attitude a bit disgusting. How can you say you love her yet you see her as a hoe? Kind of like the pot calling the kettle black if you ask me.
    Do her a favor and leave her alone. She does not need to be with some one who has such disrespect for her.
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    Alty Posts: 28,266, Reputation: 5964
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    Feb 25, 2012, 03:48 PM
    Leave her, let her find someone that actually cares about her and doesn't say the word love while calling her a hoe behind her back.

    Just fyi, I doubt a virgin would have a hoe like you, so maybe you should be happy that someone can accept your past. Too bad you aren't big enough to accept hers.
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