I am 21.I have been going around with this guy for the last three years.I love him a lot and he loves me more than that.but the problem is we both want completely different things from life.we have very nasty fights regarding this.he never agrees with me and it is the same with me.we both have towering egos and find it very difficult to accept our mistakes.he is not practical and I feel is too dependent on me which makes me extremely nervous.I am too scared to leave him because I feel he would not be able to handle the separation.something which annoys me a lot is that he treats me like a small kid as if I don't know anything.he does not let me go anywhere alone and constantly wants to know what I am doing.its not out of possessiveness but because he thinks I cannot take care of myself.back at home my father treats me like that.
One of the major reasons I want a break is that my parents do not believe in love marriages outside my community so its going to be very tough facing them.I am ready to face that too but I don't want to be treated the way I am being treated right now for my entire life. Plssss help I am too confused:confused:

I think you should dump him, From what you just said you hate been there with him, Uz are just two completely different people

If you can't work together after 3 years tell me what the point is?

The point is... ::enter snappy remark here:: there really isn't one. They simply are too opposite of each other.