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Toshima · Nov 29, 2009, 06:55 PM

Hello my name is Toshima and me and my boyfriend have been together for two months now and I really don't think our relationship is going anywhere he says that there's a connection but I just don't know.. We are two completely different people he's like the party type while I'm more of a cool laid back person and he says I'm the youngest person he's ever been in an relationship with.. I just don't know what I should do should I try to find things in common between us and try to better our realationship or just forget it and move on?? I need help because I'm so confused!!

Fr_Chuck · Nov 29, 2009, 07:10 PM

Dating is for just that, to see if you match up, ifyou don't feel it, then it is time to move on

I wish · Nov 29, 2009, 07:12 PM

If you don't feel the connection, then find someone else to have that connection with.

Why force the issue? A connection should happen naturally.

88sunflower · Nov 29, 2009, 07:16 PM

If you don't feel the connection don't look for it. You either feel it or you don't.

Its been only a couple months so I would just walk away before you get to deep. Don't try to find things to have in common if you don't. That's only going to prolong the breakup.

Its not a big deal to call it quits. Your not going to click with every person you meet. Sounds like you had an attraction but basically there is nothing more to go on.

You can't force what's not there. Don't waste anyone's time trying.

Toshima · Dec 26, 2009, 09:59 PM

Threads merged.

Hes more quiet, chill, and cautious about things unlike me who is more outgoing, talkative, and daring... I try not to be so out there when I'm around him or talking to him because I still feel like I can't completely be myself around him... he's older then me, so I do find myself saying somethings out of my mouth that he finds a little weird or awkward.. we been having many problems lately but none of them actually ever led to a break up... I don't know if I should just open up and be myself around him which he proably will find a little immature since I'm such a goofy person.. when I'm around him or simply just talking on the phone it is always quiet we never really talk about anything... he says he's just not a talkative person, but when he gets around everyone else he just talks up a storm... I thought maybe he doesn't feel comfortable around me yet but I'm not sure.. maybe he doesn't really like the relationship or maybe he's bored with it... I don't know what's going on I'm just so lost... wat do you guys think??

sabrewolfe · Dec 26, 2009, 10:02 PM

I think you should just be yourself around him. Sooner or later your going to get tired of holding yourself back. Beside's, he might actually like who you really are.

talaniman · Dec 27, 2009, 04:05 PM

If that's the way he is, then that's the way he is, so just be yourself, and do your thing, and don't worry about what he isn't saying, the fact is, he is with you, so just chill, and enjoy your goofy self. He probably does.

talaniman · Dec 27, 2009, 05:07 PM

I just noticed after merging your threads, that you are the quiet type in one, and outgoing in another. What's up with that??

amicon · Dec 28, 2009, 12:41 AM

Yes-confusing, an update on that would be nice.