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    jaegerlady26 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 17, 2013, 11:08 AM
    Should I leave?
    I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months, prior to him I had two long term relationships one of which was abusive. Earlier today I was messing around and taking the mick out of the pages he had liked on Facebook he got very wound up about this and pushed me so hard I fell off the arm of the couch where I was sitting, I wasn't hurt just shocked and upset as he knows about my past! Should I stay with him or just let this pass as an out of control moment, he is a lot younger than me
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    Apr 17, 2013, 02:24 PM
    LEAVE. I know it's a one word function, men never push. Hit ,shove, talk down to or even attempt to hold power over loved ones. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE HE HAS NO EXCUSE, LEAVE.
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    Apr 17, 2013, 02:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by sleepingless View Post
    LEAVE. I know it's a one word function, men never push. hit ,shove, talk down to or even attempt to hold power over loved ones. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE HE HAS NO EXCUSE, LEAVE.

    I know this, been there done that before, but he is reminding me that I gave my abusive ex chance aftrr chance even though he did worse
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    Apr 17, 2013, 04:58 PM
    You know how this story starts and ends so you leave before it gets worse. And you know it will. Doesn't matter what he says its what he does that mattered.
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    Apr 17, 2013, 05:14 PM
    His argument is that the last guy got to abuse you and get another chance? What a tool. Leave. Your response can be, "yeah, I was dumb to give him a second chance, but I've learned."
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