I am in love with girl who is 1 year younger than me.She frequently come to my home as our families have very good relationship.She is best friend of my elder sister.
I don't know when exactly I fell in love with her.
But trying to make friendship.I never miss a chance to have a look at her and talk.as our education streams are same she asked me for help sometimes. And I feel very glad to help her by every means.I tried several times.. so that she got my messege.I am telling u 1 event.. she had some work on internet so we went out together.after work is over I requested her to come with in restaurant for cofee she accept gracefully.at restuarnt we had very good conversation.during conversation I gave her gift .sure I gave it without any occasion so I though she got my masg. This story is pretty older NOW .
After 2 week we had chance to meet, at the meeting she admits .as she is sorry for not saying thank you for the gifts..
After that we had usual conversation.but I wasnot sure about her side towards me .
After that I tried many times to proposed her but could not dare to do so..
One day when I had to leave city for further education.There was not any way reamin for me other than proposed her.. I called her to come to restaurant
That I have something to talk to u.
I proposed her there.. she refuse the proposal.and admit that she never thought on this line in past . Even for other person.
As I have to spend 2 year for study purpose.I asked her that do you have any problem if I go to your parents for u.. she did not give me any answer.also she told me that as your moving to other city you will find many girls there you will like them probably your decision might change .
She told me she don't have any problem for friendship with me as I am brother of her best friend.
As now I am in another city.I desparatly want to talk to her.I can make ph. Call. I am optimistic about the future that she might accept my proposal later.
I love her as my life . I WANT her love and not friendship only.and I know she respect me a lot.thats why she coolly listen to me.
What should I do? Should I make contact with her.
Or will it hurt myself esteem as to follow her.
Tell me that if I called her will my image fall in her eyes ?or Everything IS FARE IN LOVE AND WAR IS TRUE HERE TOO.. or should I do every possible things to achieve her.
Please help me... I am waiting for reply

I really hate to tell you this but you are being rash and probably frightened the poor girl.. if you mean proposal as in marriage that is something that more than likely was a big mistake you have had not relationship other than friends with this girl and she has obviously no interest in you in the way you desire... Unfortunately I believe she was simply being nice as to not hurt your feelings but I would be certain that you creeped her out she is more than likely thankful that you are in another city just count your losses and at least get into a relationship before deciding you wish to marry someone

I think you should just leave her alone because she already said no... don't start stalking her... f you're a good person you will find someone else

Face it- the girls not interested but that doesn't mean there's no gals left for u not to see. Stop worrying about her and move on with your life as she has told you herself she has no feelings of that kind for u. :)