
 Originally Posted by 
pashosh
					 
				 
				here's what
the skinny boy of course does not know I love him He is a few months younger than me and although he is very sociable i sense he feels very much alone i have known him slightly for a few years but grown to love him only as of late 
as far as i know he is not with anyone we are both at our 31st year
			
		 
	 
 You're both single, young adults, then why not just talk to him and let him know you're interested? You've known him for a while so I don't see the problem in just talking to him... Is there more to the story that we're missing? 
You mentioned that ashkenazi thing; are there some religious/cultural boundaries you're afraid of crossing?