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    dreamingartist Posts: 104, Reputation: 54
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    Jul 6, 2009, 08:23 AM
    Should I even bother venting to someone if there is nothing nice to say.
    Ok, new girl. Been hanging out for about 2 months. Went on a awesome trip for 4th of July. She had to go home for work Saturday evening, but I stayed with friends at the beach. Come Sunday when I get home and call her up to talk I get no reply, so I leave a nice voicemail thanking her for the fun times. She texts me a hour or two later telling me she drove 2 hours to visit her X-BF. So I really have nothing nice to say to her at all... So do you think I should just avoid her, not call her, not talk to her, and let her be a confused game player, or should I tell her that she is a confused game player and etc etc etc... I mean either way I am not messing with that crap, so should I even waste my time and energy on venting to her or should I just do like my title says and say nothing, since I have nothing nice to say?
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    Jul 6, 2009, 08:27 AM

    No, why bother 2 months is not even worth it.
    If she contacts you to tell you about an ex, RED FLAG Don't bother with this one.
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    88sunflower Posts: 1,207, Reputation: 462
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    Jul 6, 2009, 08:30 AM
    Don't waste any more time on her. Leave her to her ex. Venting your thoughts to her will just get you more angry hearing her responses. You never mentioned being in love at all. So no love gained, no love lost. You know what I would say to myself if I were you? NEXT.

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