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    May 21, 2012, 05:25 PM
    She wanted space...
    Well woke up on Saturday morning she says we need to talk I say I already know. I know because that whole week was just silence so Saturday is here and she says I need space because I don't take you serious. So I say nothing but I knew it was coming. We were together for 4yrs. What do I do? But she texts me and says I hope this isn't the end of us now. What do I do? HELP
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    May 21, 2012, 06:06 PM
    What do you do? You start by explaining this a little better in English as text speak is not only against the rules that you agreed to, but it is annoying to read as well.

    From what I can make of this, you should give her the space she wants and forget about her.
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    May 21, 2012, 11:09 PM
    Give her the space a little and wait for her. She must still love you and want u if she says she doesn't want y'all to end. It's just space not breaking up so no worrys! Good luck!:)
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    May 22, 2012, 12:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    What do you do? You start by explaining this a little better in English as text speak is not only against the rules that you agreed to, but it is annoying to read as well.

    From what I can make out of this, you should give her the space she wants and forget about her.
    I agree

    Walk away and find something better then these dumb I need space but I still love you young minded females.
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    May 22, 2012, 02:15 AM
    I havte to agree with Jimmy78 on this one, It does not sound like she even know what she wants anymore.

    Andy
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    May 22, 2012, 05:03 PM
    Do your own thing without her, even if you are out of practice because it's a really big red flag when they leave, instead of discussing things. Not very honest. Ignore her texts. If she wants to talk face to face fine, but no texting or calls.

    I think she had her chance to express herself, but didn't, she left.
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    May 23, 2012, 04:39 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Littlebeast View Post
    Give her the space a little and wait for her. She must still love you and want u if she says she doesn't want y'all to end. It's just space not breaking up so no worrys! Good luck!:)
    Yeah... usually "space" is the end. If they want space or a break, most times it's over.

    And I see that someone edited the original post to read in English. Well done but... how do you know that's what they were really saying? Lol
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