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    Jan 23, 2009, 03:01 PM
    She suddenly wants a break!
    Hi guys and thank you in advance :)

    Fortunately I found this forum today! This thing is driving me crazy! Heeeeeeeeeeeelp

    Well my situation is: I have been with my girl friend for 3 months and 2 days till today!! I know that's not a great deal, we just got together when she came to the college where I study... I know her previously, she is almost my neighbour but we are not friends! Just a kind of know each other, till we got into this dull relation...

    I was centrist with her, I hate extremism! A little jealous when it's necessary, caring, loving and providing all what I could bring... always talking to her and making her aware about our relation's "serious brand :p"

    We were soooooo fine and she was always claiming that we are in a Beautiful relationship, and that our relationship is the one she always dreamt of! That's what she said!
    Since last Saturday she showed some weird symptoms!! She said that she is confused, cannot understand what's wrong with her emotions and that she simply "donnow"!!
    Examples:
    . She is not sure about either she loves me or not!
    . She didn't want to answer the phone though my MULTIPLE trials
    . She claimed that she is so so so confused and can't understand any of what's happening
    . Everything for her is "donnow", all the words and answers became "donnow"!! Guuuuuuuuuuuuys!!

    We just spent 4 days like that, we were communicating via phone, no face-to-face... till we met Wednesday... she admitted she was wrong and that that was not the right time for her to feel like that and that she should have done it from the beginning... well... we got back, soooo fine! And I forgave her and noticed that I don't want that to be repeated... all seemed to be fine and sooo lovely
    However (I hate this signal ) today, we met ( yesterday "thursday" she stayed home because of flu) she was OK in the morning but I noticed s.th wrong, I just started to talk and she started to Cry!
    Again... she is not sure and she is confused and all that talk!!
    What?? What's wrong!!
    Well, she told me that she is going through a bad mood phase and that she is confused again! She needs sometime by her own!
    Well, we agreed in the end (today we were together for a couple of hours) that we'll meet next Wednesday and that she want to be alone at least for the next four days! And that she needs time to decide whether she loves me or not! And that her AGE is not convenient! Weird ain't it?
    We did have some problems before, in the 2nd month but NOT during the last one!

    I'm 24 and she is 20. Frankly I want to keep her :) although I think that she won't be back
    I'm not so affected, I had a stronger blow when my ex (5years together) just ignored me and married
    But this one is kind of cute and lovely seeing, stylish and sweet :p like all galz :)
    All I want is to understand! She says that I'm so so kind to her and that she is aware that she is the bad one...
    She ensured that she has no other boyz or s.one after her... she also said that she is so bad and feels guilty.. well, I'm so lenient and believe in love
    Weird world!!
    Something which I'm sure of; I won't die, I'm OK & already enjoying my freedom

    PS: sorry for the language interpretability or mess guys, I'm not a native speaker of English but I'm trying :)
    Thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaank you
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    Jan 23, 2009, 03:12 PM

    PS: I forgot, she told me that now at this very moment, she needs me as a friend more than a boyFriend :s What!?
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    Jan 23, 2009, 05:10 PM

    90% of people who dump their partners for whatever reason, want to stay friends.

    The relationship is over, can you just be friends with her, and not want her back? If you can't, you better make a clean break, and leave her alone.

    Saves a lot of confusion that way, trust me. Better yet, read the stickies at the beginning of this forum, or other stories, like yours, and see what I'm saying.
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    Jan 24, 2009, 03:15 PM
    Yup right :) thank you it seems sensible and useful :) I'll opt for being friends with her, in the end I'm older and should be more reasonable :)

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