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stack51 · Mar 7, 2010, 12:40 AM

My ex and I started speaking to each other again as friends. She still talks to me about everything except when it comes to guys. Is she doing this because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings or she still likes me and doesn't want to talk to any other guy?

amicon · Mar 7, 2010, 12:49 AM

You know,she's the only one who could tell you that.

If I were to hazard a guess,I'd say she probably feels uncomfortable discussing guys with an ex.

CarrotTalker · Mar 7, 2010, 12:50 AM

Well how long ago was the breakup and why did it happen?

It sounds like you have a lot of false hope for this girl. Have you been pursuing other options?

stack51 · Mar 7, 2010, 02:42 AM

We were on and off for a while but it ended a little over a year ago. Since then she was somewhat interested but I went full no contact for about 5 months, started dating for a while but eventually I replied to one of her messages and we started talking for a little bit.

TrueFaith · Mar 7, 2010, 07:18 AM

I feel in life and with most things.. moving backwards is never a good thing you guys ended for a reason.

And if you can have a good and long lasting friendship out of this all the best.

However, if you are thinking that you will somehow be with her again, and hoping for another chance and wondering in the what if.. and maybe area.

Then this will just lead to a very long and hard road.

I think your first reaction to go no contact was good and your moment of weakness has caused all these rather irrelevant questions to pop up.

My advice either Talk with her and get everything out in the open
Or
Go back to no contact and move forward with your own life

All the best

I wish · Mar 7, 2010, 08:20 AM

Don't build false hope by twisting her interactions with you. If you still want her back, then be direct and let her know. Quit playing these mind games.

If you can't handle a regular friendship without generating false hope for yourself, then you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

talaniman · Mar 7, 2010, 08:53 AM

Since your talking again as friends, just ask her why she doesn't talk about guys she is interested in.

That direct approach is a lot better than assuming, and presuming what's on her mind.

Devorameira · Mar 7, 2010, 08:58 AM

Do you truly want to hear about the guys she's with? I think that she is showing respect for you by not discussing her relationships with you and you are reading more into it than you should.