okay, so here's my story. I met this girl a week ago online. We have seen each others pictures, and are planning ot meet. She has been dropping some signals that she may be interested in and like me more than a friend. So I just wanted to know if she is and whether to make the move or wait a month or 3 or a year.

The signals:

1. 1. she has spent all the 15-30 minutes each day everyday of this week asking me things my favourite food, movie, books to whether I have flown before. (This is when I asked her what she wants to talk about because I am a terrible topic chooser and she knows it, and the truth is I would love to talk to her about anything she wants to talk about)

2.She keeps going on about how nice I am to her

3. Me and her talk a lot about her coming over to visit and she seems to be excited about it

4. I am pretty sure she might have accidentally let slip that she likes me when today, we were talking then suddenly she was randomly going hey Adam can I tell you something
and then just went back to the whole you are super nice business again.

5. The first night we talked, we were talking about favourite foods, and she mentioned that she loved subway and I love subway too so I told her that. And she said her favourite was the meatball sub. And the next morning when we talked, she messaged me first and said hey guess what, Im like what? She was like I think I might get subway for dinner. And then she was like lol Im going to think of you every time I get subway.

6. I have been saying a lot of nice and sweet things about her, you know, just being really nice and sweet to her and what not. And every time I say something nice and sweet about her she would be like lol. My friend said that's like laughing because she thinks I'm really sweet.


So, after taking all these signals into account, and yes I am also quite aware that some girls do tend to do things that makes no sense logically and would give signals like that even though she may just think you are a awesome friend, hence my dilemma. If she does really like me and is interested, then I will probably give it a week and then ask her, otherwise I may wait longer like a month or 3.

My question, IS SHE INTERESTED OR IS SHE JUST SAYING WHAT A WONDERFUL FRIEND I AM.

(I'm doing this for her sake and for mine, because I was never any good at handling rejection and she will get freaked out and I will most likely lose even her friendship)

Thanks in advance for answers

Adam

How old are you and she?

How far away does she live from you?

If it's close why not just ask her if she wants to go to Subway for lunch.

I always think we need to meet a person to discover whether there is real chemistry.here I d take it nice and slow before meeting up.in other words carry on as you are for a bit.

Take the steps to find out if she is as interested as you are, and if its practical, and realistic to meet SAFELY. Otherwise she is an online buddy, or electronic pen pal, so don't get carried away by fantasy, and forget the real world around you.