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    sniperpsg1000 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 22, 2012, 07:05 PM
    She says I'm too sensitive!
    I need to know what I did wrong here? I get a message from this girl who was my childhood friend asking if I want to have dinner sometime! I haven't seen her in 15 years (we're both 26) so I was like hell yeah she's looking so good now! I was so nervous to see her and when I get that way I attend to get some what fidgety! The first day she was calling me out on my ''being to nervous'' and that I need to grow up! Like this girl is educated and seems to be a little judgmental at times! I took that first date as a sign of "she's not interested" but than she messaged me asking to hang out again on the weekend. So I was like sure!

    This time, it was so much better like we went to the gun-range, had dinner, plus went back to her place and made out all night! Like, I was feeling her vibe and she was feeling mine! So than the next message came up asking if I want to have a hot tub party at her friends place and I'm like... "Wow in the middle of winter you're crazy girl" and she just went south from there! Telling me to shut up I'm annoying her! I really didn't mean to offend her and she hates it when I'm like I was just kidding! I really had to be somewhere that day!

    She than wanted to have dinner with me on Valentines Day so I asked her if she's still up for the dinner and she was like sure! So in my head I was thinking everything is fine! When I met up with her at her place she wanted to take her car! We went for sushi and the whole time she was *****ing to me about personal things like I need to fix my grammar and that I'm too sensitive. Like she knows I like her and I've been through so much in life, that I'm more of a humble laid back person! I wanted to just end the night and call it a day so as we were walking to the car she didn't even let me in like I was standing outside her car for ten minutes and she never looked at me once! The minute I walked away she than called me and started yelling at me! Blaming me for not taking her joke. I was pissed so I told her if I meant anything to her than she needs to make it up! She messaged me telling me never to speak to her again>>>>>>>> where did I go wrong here?
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    odinn7 Posts: 7,691, Reputation: 1547
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    Feb 22, 2012, 07:55 PM
    Uh... if your story is true (and I have no reason to doubt you), then I have to say the only place you went wrong was in dealing with her at all. She sounds like a total nut... seriously. I can't figure why she would keep wanting to go out with you only to talk to you like that and treat you that way. Further, I can't get why you kept putting up with it... other than maybe you hoped she would get over herself and things would turn around.

    Anyway, best to not deal with her anymore. Forget her. If she contacts you, ignore her. Save yourself from further torment.
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    Feb 22, 2012, 09:46 PM
    You are both too sensitive. And early on in a relationship jokes on one another may not be a very good idea.

    Also both of you should know when to take things seriously and when to take them lightly. She obviously has some issues maybe she doesn't like being called crazy even jokingly, and asking you to fix your grammar and calling you sensitive may not necessarily mean that she's picking on you. I do find her idea of joke twisted.

    Well if early on there are so many problems, its best to forget her and move on.
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    Feb 23, 2012, 12:22 AM
    Doesn't sound like she is worth your time, just playing her childish games. Do both of you a favor and never talk to her again.
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    Feb 23, 2012, 11:52 PM
    Very simple. Man up and tell her whose got the balls. Im assuming you like her very much, so you need to tell her exactly how you feel about her games and then... walk away.

    The results will be in your favor either way. Hope it helps.
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    Feb 25, 2012, 09:46 PM
    Its not you, it's the NUT case you are dating. You should forget the beauty, and go for brains and a sweet disposition.
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    Jul 12, 2012, 09:26 PM
    Oh wow, coming from a woman it's not YOU that needs to grow the hell up it's her. That is so low what she did to you. Please tell me you're done with her? Not trying to be mean, but you're crazy if you want to be with her. Forget how 'good' she looks, she's a nutcase.It sounds to me like she's just leading you on.

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