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    funcuteguy Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 30, 2008, 06:22 PM
    She just wants to be a friend
    Hi...

    We met and she was blown away and told me she liked me very much and she then introduced me to her friends and they liked me too and then we went on a walk on the beach holding hands and later I text her that how special I felt when she was around and would love to kiss her . She said that could be arranged and would come to my house next day .

    Later on that day she texted me that she needs time to think and honestly she thinks I ma a great guy but she is not the one for me . She just wants to hangout as friends . She says she does not have the same feelings as I do .

    How come at first she was all blown away and liked me and now suddenly she does not . I'm confused .

    All this happened in 5 days... I can't believe this .

    She keeps texting asking how I am doing ? I told her that I'm good and happy and glad she told me .

    But still have feeling for her . U think she is going to come back after sometime?
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    May 30, 2008, 08:42 PM
    Seems like the fuse was ignited and was put out in one week...

    It happens, you really never know what else is going on in someone else's life when you first start talking.

    Take this as a big compliment to you as you "blew her away", what's stopping you from doing that to someone else?

    -Sik
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 31, 2008, 06:26 AM
    I think she likes you, but is not ready for what you want, as you've only known each other for 5 days. She is inviting you to date, and get to know each other, so its up to you. She will not be your quick fix for sex. If your as interested as you say, do this right and go out like normal people do. Act like a gentleman, who knows how to respect and have fun with a lady.
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    May 31, 2008, 10:08 AM
    It's hard... >.<
    Maybe your first impression blew her away but when she got to know you she thought that you weren't her type.
    My advice: love at first sight is hard to come by, and almost never lasts. Get to know someone better before you try to take it to the next step.

    GGOOODD LLUUUCCKK!

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