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    marcus83 Posts: 48, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 18, 2007, 01:45 PM
    Is she just playing with me for fun?
    We broke up 6 months ago, why does she still call me every few weeks? Why does she still want to be my friends after she said that I have treated her and said things to her no one ever has. Why does she say when I beg her to take me back... we can't be together the way you are NOW? 6 MONTHS OF THIS,. 6 MONTHS! Why didn't she just change her phone number 3 months ago... she treatens me with restraining orders ( from 1000 miles away) and then calls me if I leave her alone for three weeks... IM SO CONFUSED... please help me make some sense of all of this... sometimes I think the dog I bought her makes her feel guilty,. wanting to be friends with me is to only make herself feel better... I need answers, my brain constantly obsesses over this girl. I can't help it
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    Aug 18, 2007, 01:47 PM
    Why have you not changed your phone number ? She is trying to be sure you don't move on and become happy, and it appears to be working.
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    Aug 18, 2007, 01:59 PM
    Hello.

    She is being a jerk and you don't need to take it. If you need to change your phone number. If she calls hang up on her. If you see her in public be nice but walk away. You're a good Man and when your ready you will find your Mrs. Right.

    Dennis777
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    marcus83 Posts: 48, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:06 PM
    I do have a problem, I mean I do, tell her things like I hope you die, (because she's killing me with dating)... then she calls me and screams at me saying " see this person... I don't want to be with this... shes 1000 miles away! In med school... all I have is a basically a phone to get over. Not a person.. I haven't seen her in 6 months... WHY Won't I LET MYSELF MOVE ON?
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    Zell Posts: 57, Reputation: 6
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:29 PM
    I know what's its like man, and I feel for you, because I'm going through a similar thing right now. Only advice I can give you is just cut ALL contact with her. It hurts like hell I know but it gets better day by day trust me.
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