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Vishal Sharma · Jul 4, 2013, 12:43 AM

I am 27 and I love this girl of 25 and she has boyfriend , they were in relation about 3 years but it was mostly long distance. She doesn’t like him because he is more of equipped with jealousy and possessive one & more over due to difference in family drawback , that’s why she doesn’t want to get along with him. We meet past 4 months and we really like each other and spend nights together. She really loves me and even I do,, She cares me a lot and I want to marry her.
But however, now her boyfriend is back after studies & he is every time after her and she is little bit disturbed, She doesn’t want to break his heart right now as he is appearing one of the civil examination,, after that she promised me that she will leave him for me and get married with me, she told me to wait for few months and then surely she wants to stay with me.. what should I do ? It really hurts my emotion and I am not able to put pressure on her… any suggestion would be so helpful to me? Thank You

N0help4u · Jul 4, 2013, 08:27 AM

The best thing to do is step out of the picture until she does what she feels she has to do and then after she has made her clean break take it from there. Who knows she might not want to break your heart or be trying to buy time to decide which one she really wants, or she might plan to be with you then he wins her heart back... so while she is concerned about him, you need to be concerned about you and step back until further notice.

none12345 · Jul 4, 2013, 03:59 PM

This is why you don't get involved with a girl that is taken. You have just put yourself in the middle of the complication. I'm sorry but how can you be with someone who is cheating. Just doesn't seem right to me. You can wait for her as long as you want but doesn't it tell you something about her when she can't even be honest in her current relationship?