I have a serious affair with my boyfriend about 9 years of relation he cared and loved my lot he supported me financially as well I wantd to get marry him since so long no he has done all responsebilites of him being a son,brother it was the time for me to get reward as I was waiting for him for so long (9) years now.I am chirstian and he iz muslim am ready to convert for him but his parents are not accepting me he got engaged as his parents wanted him to get engaged he did little fight with them and doing arguments with them even so far he said I want to get mary you but I want my fathers permision and his father does not like me as am chirstian and working girl and also that am not very rich now we keep meeting each other as he and me can't stop ourselves to see each other many of the time we tried but atlast we can't stay without each other now his behaviour is little changed he does not want me to speak about his engagement issue he simply said if its GOD will we will marry otherwise I can't go against my family he keeps himself very bussy in his job and if I argue with him that your not paying attention to this issue he gets too angry many of the time he beats me badly if I call him its OK he does not calling me he if get angry with him he does nt care I feel like its only myself who is engaged and committed with this relation he does not.now his parents decided to arrange his marriage in march 2012 and am vry upset due to this I got sick now and can't do anything to stop him everybody telling me to leave him but I really can't but I know he is toooo bussy and now he can live without me he start geeting irtitating from me for no reason he is not behaving me well what should I do now

He has made it clear, that most likely at least till his parents die and are not there to object, he will not marry you. Sorry this should have been clear long before, and I see no hope but you will be just like it is now for years and years