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I had an issue with my employer, suspended for 1 week without pay, I appealed, another accusation was thrown out and I was asked to resign or I would be fired. I felt I didn't do anything wrong, why...

Hello, I have had trouble achieving an erection my whole life. I first noticed early 20's now I'm 44. When I was young I thought it was anxiety. But, after several long term relationships, the...

The reason I asked, I know the person who asked it and after the hiring process is finished I thought I would caution him about those lines of questions.

I went to a job interview last week and one of the interviewers asked me about my Army Reserve commitment. I had just finished Warrant Officer Candidate School. He wanted to know if I was finished...

If I was a stand up guy I would be able to forgive her for her transgressions. I'll be forever grateful for her generosity but pissed at the way she treated me. Paying her back is the guilt free...

Paying her back isn't the issue, if I didn't I would not feel good about my decision. We did not separate on the best of terms. And, after the separation I learned some interesting things that...

It is better to have the relationship end now then to have it dragged out for several more years. Much less painless when people communicate throughout the relationship. You should respect her...

It was a combined settlement, damage to reputation and stress causing physical damages, high blood pressure. But I think the award stated non-physical damages. What would I be looking at for taxes,...

While my ex and I were together, my job caused me to hire an attorney. She loaned me some money for an attorney. If she had not loaned me the money I would not have the job I still have and I...

Hello, I received a mediated settlement of $46000.00. The claim was non-specific physical damages. Stress from the incident and damage to reputation. How much will I have to pay in taxes on that...

Romefalls19 is correct communication is a must. Keep the dialogue open, but enjoy the moment.

It was a gift, legally it is hers, I personally would not want to keep it. But, that is something she has to deal with

What you are feeling is loneliness. It will pass, stay occupied with positive events, don't be tempted to contact him because you are lonely. Being alone can help you grow. You should be looking...

She enjoys your company, but does not respect you. As long as you are available she will continue to run back to you for comfort, but that is all she wants. Make yourself unavailable to her, and...

Went through a devastating break-up last February. When we parted ways, she asked me if it was "OK" for her to call me. I said, "after you have put some thought into want you want, you can call me"...

Although Talaniman is brutal he is correct. You have already said you agree to the break, which is just a fancy way of saying break-up. I have learned from my past mistake, my ex wanted a break, we...

You have a tough situation. You just can't have no contact. But, you might think about setting up visitations with him so you can drop off your son in a public place. You won't have a chance to...

I have been out of a relationship for 2 months, I see her almost everyday, I live a 1/4 from her house. I started to drive the long way just so I would not have to see her house. When I finally...

I keep seeing a recurring theme. The breaker keep using familiar phrases; it's not you its me, I want to remain friends, I don't want to hurt you. They never address the real issues of why the...

After much thought and reflection. I felt that after we had decided no contact she came over to me in the gym and started a conversation to see how I was doing to ease her guilt. My reaction might...

If he does come back. You need to take him back on your terms. Use the time apart to develop yourself and grow.

I read one of those how to get your ex book back. It wasn't about playing games. It was straight up honest, the chance of winning your ex back is small. If and whne you get a chance to talk to...

JudyKayTee you may have to break what you said down barney style. I know I just stopped being there for her. I wish I could get a do over. Is that anything close to what you meant. As for the...

talaniman I appreciate your advice, I see your point, although I think it is a little too soon. We live on the same road about 1/4 mile apart. I must drive by her house to get to mine unless I want...

In reflection, and I so wish I could go back. I do see the strain I put on her because a few people decided to make my life hell. I should have been talking to a professional counselor. And know...

OK, figure this out; I went to the gym, we both share the same gym. She was there and gave me a wave, I waved back. She finished her workout and came over to me and said hello and then asked me...

As a caveat, moving on is the best advice, and I know in my head I need to, but my heart wants to get back with her. I will post in here to get my thoughts on print, it helps me. I hope she does...

I agree too many games, someone is going to get hurt

Well, I have been back to work, I was reinstated in March. And, I have received a promotion. Meaning the whole firing was a sham. I have been working and the last year we have been very active...

Im surprised nobody has chimed in yet. Day six no contact, very tough having to drive by her house every day. And seeing her new love interest at her house. Yesterday she IM'ed me. What is going...

I was hoping to be able to come back onto this site a say I rekindled my relationship. But I can't. A year ago she said she wanted some distance. She agreed we were to work on the ralatiionship. ...

We went away with her parents for a long weekend, I expected things to go better, things did not go bad but they could have gone better, no fighting. It seems as if I'm doing all the work and she...

You might want to start talking to a professional, Priest, rabbi name your poison. Learn to grow. The pain will lessen, time heals all wounds, cliché I know but it is the best I can come up with...

One week down, still don't know where I stand. We stent a pretty good weekend together, well, sort of, her parents were with us for most of the weekend. Hiking, a movie, then a basketball game on...

Thanks, I realize now that our relationship had been in a rut for a long time. I also thought, right now I'm stressed the doctor wants me on a beta blocker to deal with job stress. Things will get...

Ok, new update, we talked, she clarified what she meant, she wants her personal space, not distance. I was always over to her small apartment. She wants the time we had about a year ago. I'm...

The problem I don't think she was clear, she wants space and everything I have read that means it is over. But, she still wants to be friends and she doesn't know if she wants it to end either. I...

I've read what a lot of people have written and it doesn't give me much hope. I have a lot of time on my hands, administrative leave from work , nobody to spend my evenings with, already spend too...

I realize moving in now is not an option, but the stress of having two people somewhat living in a small apartment did create stress. My house is in the remodeling stage. That was creating stress,...

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I got this bombshell tonight, at first I thought she was joking.

We have been in a relationship for 4+ years, the relationship started very hot but has waned in the past year. ...