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So the next time she texts me should I just do no contact and not say anything mean anymore? She obviously wants to be friends but I noticed being mean to her hasn't worked and she still keeps trying...

That's what I've done Amicon- I never called her once or texted her 1st since she dumped me. It would be nice to have her for booty calls but I would just get false hope and she would only be doing...

Hey everyone- one of my good friends from work (whos a lot older than me) asked me if I heard from my ex at all. I told him how she just recently contacted me again and I told him how I was mean to...

Yea that's a good one- I like that!

Yea thanks man... next time I'll just say "please dont contact me unless you wanted to get back together."

Well she said hey and I said haven't you hurt me enough already and she said I'm really sorry I just wanted to see how you were doing. I said you have to be kidding me- I don't need your guilty.pity...

What do you mean by pretty soon she'll get the message? Why after 5 months is she still trying to relieve guilt? Was it good how I was rude to her?

Update- Its been a little over 5 months now since my ex fiancé dumped me suddenly. She keeps texting me and a month ago I told her to stop sending me her lame guilty/pity texts and so I never thought...

So in another week it will be 5 months from the day I found out it was over for good with my fiancé. I don't know if its because of the holidays or just the winter blues but I have found myself...

That's what I meant- the county- Not like I was looking for an address:rolleyes: Like I said I was going to do some research to help the OP out:cool:

You're going to have to ask someone from the local Division of youth and family services. Where in Kentucky do you live? How old are you and how olds the baby? I can look into it for you and see what...

Hey guys- well Christmas came and went now and I never heard from my ex. I guess the text I sent her 3 weeks ago was enough to have her give up on trying to message me. I was kind of upset that I...

You too RomeFalls and everyone else on here! Especially all the experts and all the people suffering from broken hearts.

Good man- I'm glad to hear you're going to try moving on. You'll ALWAYS think about her- even 1 or 2 or 3 years from now. But you'll think about her a tiny bit less every day. Unfortuneately our...

Hey Tyler, Listen man we all know how you feel about this girl. I'm sure she's beautiful with a great body- my ex was also. Sometimes we overlook things because of the girls beauty but listen to what...

Hey "thatguy2"... EXCELLENT post man. I'm glad you wrote it.

Ok I see your point and you do make some valid points. However there is a thing called respect and when a girl is purposely DISRESPECTING her man and trying to push his buttons on purpose that's...

Great thread "I wish"... you covered the no contact rule thoroughly. One question for you... I'm doing no contact again (after I broke it a few times already)... but what do you do when the dumper...

Hey man... I know exactly how you feel. I have felt the same way since I got dumped and its been 4 1/2 months now. I only hooked up with one girl since I got dumped just to see how it felt and...

OK so it was a serious relationship since you were together a long time. Being that she's 19 explains a lot- she still has a lot of wild oats to sow. Don't worry man its nothing you did wrong she's...

I just re read your thread and I have 2 questions... how long weere you two together? And how old are you and her?

Hey man- good for you... you're strong and that was great sending her the text that said to go tell it to your new boyfriend. I wish I was that strong in the beginning but you live and you learn....

That really is so true "the fact is if they want to cheat their going to"... no matter how much you keep tabs on them they'll still find a way. So the best thing to do is let them do whatever they...

Great question Emo- that's what I was thinking also- you see.. what if girls (like Emo's ex & my ex) do little things that are very minor but none the less disrespectful? For example- Emo's ex told...

Hey Tal/Emo- I've been reading through this thread because Emo's ex sounds a lot like my ex- they probably would be good friends lol. My question is Tal- what's a guy like Emo or me supposed to do...

I'm going to follow this so I thank you for posting it...

Thanks Tal- I'm going to listen to your guys advice. Its so tempting to see her because I still miss her but I don't need any more pain right now. That's why I had to post on here today- I need it...

Well I'm glad Tal was able to come up with an answer. One of the things that has helped me is knowing that there are so many other people that are going through the same thing and EVERYBODY struggles...

That's the only reason that I mentioned it- because I'm thinking I may be over things enough where it won't hurt to see her. I'm probably wrong though because if she mentioned a guy that she's seeing...

I know its not but I had to post on here because I had this strong urge to contact her because I'll be so close. I'm thinking even if she did meet it probably wouldn't go good. I was 5 minutes from...

Hey guys- As anyone that's been following my thread knows my ex fiancé lives 1 1/2 hours from me. This weekend there's a party that my friend wants me to go to that's 5 minutes from my ex's house....

I'm struugling with the same thoughts Fear. I've been meeting new people and its just confusing me because I also wonder if I like the girl or if I'm just lonely. I know that if my ex came back I'd...

Hey Clue- that's great man. Happy to hear about your job and the car. You two broke up the same time as me and my ex so were in the same time frame as far as healing. Like you I'm ready to start...

Hey Tyler- I went through the same thing as you with my ex- fiancé 4 months ago. I know how bad it hurts and I know you want nothing more than to get back with her.

However, the sooner you accept...

Hey man, I'm glad to hear you're doing better. So how long has it been that you two have been broken up?

Your situation is probably the most similar to mine on this whols site being the fact our...

Thanks Tal- well I sent one a month ago that said basically the same thing- to not contact me unless she wanted to meet up or get back together... so I wanted to send this because I feel like she's...

Ok so I got a text message from my ex-fiance (for the 1st time in 3 weeks) this morning that said "heyy how are ya?! I was just thinking about you".

I know peoples advice was to do no contact but...

Hey Van- no I didn't want her to drive drunk- she was going to come the following day. Yea you're right about committing fully to the no contact to eliminate any more drama. I think that's why I sent...

HAHA! So true Tal... she probably realized the next day what she said. I was stupid for believing it- wishful thinking I guess.:rolleyes:

Could you guys or anyone please give me their opinion on something?

A month ago my ex called me drunk and told me she was going to drive the 1 1/2 hrs and come over my house- the next day she...

Thanks Van & Tal- even though she hurt me so bad I don't know why I still compare everyone to her. I mean she did have a perfect face and great body but I have to be a little less shallow I think...

Thanks Tal- I think my attitude has improved as time has gone by- but I still find myself comparing anyone I'm on a date with to my ex. I know I need to knock her off the pedestal but when I'm on...

Yeah that's what I think it is- they don't want to be my rebound so they disappear. I guess I'm going to try hard not to mention it again on a date because otherwise I'm just wasting my...

I went on a date with this girl like a month ago and we got along pretty good. At dinner the subject of our last relationships came up and I mentioned how my ex dumped me and I guess you can see/hear...

Good night Amicon-thanks. Hey Jaff- sounds like in such a short time you're doing good already. Have you heard from her lately?

I really appreciate all your help guys- This forum has helped me just get my emotions out. I think its much better posting things on here than wanting to contact my ex. One thing I could say is I'm...

How do I just let it all go? Is time the only thing that will do it for me? I've tried staying busy, gym, going out with friends but still find myself thinking about her... I think because nothing at...

Thanks guys--but why is it that she's already been seeing/having sex with different guys (4 or 5) and moved on before she even dumped me and I'm still struggling? It just seems so unfair that I'm the...

Why am I feeling so alone lately? Nothing has worked out with any girls- it seems almost impossible to find someone like my ex. I've been going to the gym but I still feel really down.

4 weeks...

You're right Amicon- I was wrong in saying he should send it. It really wouldn't do any good except to stir up a big argument. Ex'es are always going to deny cheating anyway so even if you're 99%...