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Good luck my friend let us know how it goes

I wish her the best and I think we all agree on that I just hope she is ready for anything, luck favors the prepared

I wish her the best and I think we all agree on that I just hope she is ready for anything, luck favors the prepared that is why I suggested being completely healed before going into this

Take this as a learning experience my friend it didn't kill you right it will only make you stronger

Tal,
Isn't pressure a killer? I just want her to have this mindset when she contacts her ex that she expects nothing totally not needy and not desperate, I want her to have her power back when she...

What I'm saying is with all due respect as I'm really sure you are more experienced than me is that if they want a new relationship they have to start something new and fresh let go of the past let...

As soon as you accept the facts is the best time to start over

Yes it's the attraction and the connection you once haved, imagine connecting with someone you know and like and you want to start something with that person what do you do? Build more rapport right...

Yeah you are correct :)

Just focus on your healing, what you feel right now is normal upon breakup and you glorify the relationship give it time so you can see things objectively, I am on the healing process myself it is...

Awesome I just feel bad the way I treated her sometimes we had problems I am her first everything I'm the first one who made her feel really loved. She was a virgin when we met 21 at that time we...

Wait you are 16, here is the deal the relationship you HAD with him is dead its gone its down the river. Rushing things is resurrecting the old relationship you had with him which the relationship...

See how he responds if he does good if he doesn't it is OK. Just wait what you will be doing is planting a seed here and the law of gestation says we never know when we can sow it.

That is pressure and drama I would personally stay away from that until I develop a new solid foundation of the relationship,

Hmm I suggest you do this: call him take him by surprise mention something like this
"hey i heard Aerosmith is in town and will be having a concert i know you like em, hope you are doing well, bye"....

Well my advise is if you will contact him, be casual and light hearted and don't give it your all keep it short build slowly

I guess she was irritated because you are not being you, like I said you should always be yourself if people don't like you for who you are that is there problem unless you are a super jerk

Mewoo123,

How did they get back together and what are the circumstances? Was there a 3rd party, a rebound? Analyze there success and also really think why you want your ex back

mmresd is correct just always show your best self and never pretend she may like you or not but at least you are real

just value the friendship as it is who knows I think you just pressured her.
Stay friends, if there is an opportunity for a new girl go for it

Yeah, she told me her love for me has changed to friendship level oh well little did I know after snooping around(I should have not done this and should have stayed in the dark) they were already a...

Before she broke up with me they are already together

Tal is right

Make sure you have moved on first from what broke you up and learn from it then reengage

What I learned through my breakup is it doesn't matter what she says when she dumps you, what ever she said was said to make it easy for you, if you want to know the truth find out what she...

Are you a guy?

Maybe she fell in love you and somebody told her that you are using her and don't love her better get your facts straight

Look at the bright side my friend you know what you need to improve. Appreciate his honesty and improve yourself ask his help

Who dumped who? Assess the situation only you can answer if a second chance is possible if you lay all the facts

Here2Assist, can you enlighten me with that one, my last ex told me about that but she doesn't contact me and I don't contact her either and I found out she replaced me with someone

here2assist is correct, the pain is even worse when you get back together then lose them again, best be prepared and when there is an opportunity at least you are prepared and have changed for the...

This is clearly a trust issue, I guarantee your relationship will fail if you don't trust her, as for now that is the only thing you can control

Past is the past my friend never dwell on it, if you love her truly then accept whoever and whatever she is and she has then make your relationship with her a brand new journey of unconditional love

If you want to be friends why not seriously just assess the situation on what you want and her situation as well if you really want to contact her and feel that you really have moved on maybe Facebook

I think you should really try other women get at least 2 great women and watch how your best friend just fades away guaranteed

Just leave her and see if who acts like a girlfriend after

Yeah I think invite yourself there and watch together

Well I have a different opinion, if you want to be friends why not, I have an ex who I am friends with now but we only talk online and catch up I don't feel anything but grateful that we are friends.

Just take it slow, you will both get there, be patient and she will realize you are still there for her even without sex, was she a virgin before you?

There are two ways in dealing this situation, either you go the bad way or the good way, you deserve better and better you will receive once you take the good road

Just be better, you attract the same people as your are, if you are depressed you attract depressed people. Your girlfriend wasn't able to handle that. I suggest best be prepared who knows what will...

Then communicate, ask him why he doesn't feel like having sex with you? Maybe there is something you can improve. Ask always ask there is nothing to lose :)

Yeah that is right, when a girl says she wants to be friends with you after a break up that means she doesn't like talking to you anymore and will only talk to you once in 6-13months hard truth man

Give him space to heal then talk about it

What was your situation with your ex?

There are people like that I'm sorry for you, but a relationship is not always about sex

It's the same situation with me bro, the worse thing is we are together for 5 years, she may just say she wants to try this new thing but you have to realize she is just saying this to minimize your...

If he didn't come after you then you are lucky, to move on start by being grateful for what you have in this life and be happy for it. I guarantee you that this may hurt for now but in the end the...

This is entrapment

what's the situation here? Why do you fear your x? Does he hurt you physically before?

This looks good because you have the opportunity to be better, also it looks like you have a good chance of reconciliation

Have some self-respect and walk away, let's see if he will chase you. Thing is if you have all these love to give somebody else who respects you deserves this and you deserve all the love that person...