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Don't talk about your feelings early on. Ask her out, to the movies or something to bite. Try to impress her with your personality. Be funny and witty. Use a bit of sarcasim to make her laugh. Poke...

Thank you very much

What else is new with you. Always the same old tired stuff. Did you read what I wrote in my last post, or as usual you blindly posted the first thing that came into your mind. It makes me wonder how...

Thanks for the advise on that post, but I was my very first original post for this thread.
Its confusing to peope, since they start to put the original post on top of page.

Wildcat do you ever...

Let me set the record straight here, I never call her, I never e-mail or text her, I never flirt with her at work. I been sort of seeing and dating some other women in the last month and half. I've...

Hi everyone. Well I still stand by what I said in my last post. I think she is trying to make me jealous now. I used to give her rides home after work. In the last few days, she is being picked up by...

Hey everybody how is it going? Its been a long time. Well, I'm still work at the place with my ex, yes she is still my ex. This is the way I figure it, she broke up with me, and she wants to get back...

Are there succuss stories of people getting back together and it working out?Is it a good idea or bad?

I think I'm getting too comfortable and close with my ex. From what I can tell she looks likes she is interested. I believe I should back off a bit. We spend too much time together at work and I drop...

Thanks for the advises boys and girls lol.

I'll keep you all posted.

The guy beens fired from work. He's been terminated.

Well, what can I say. The ex and I are talking now. I took her to the movies the other night. We spend more time together at work. I guess she...

WOW, I can't believe my eyes. Wildcat suggesting that I help out my ex. Are you feeling OK? Lol.

Anyway, being serious and all, thanks for all the advises, to all of you.

I'll keep you guys...

so sick by neyo. Nice R&B. listen to it.

It is strange, but ignoring the ex will some how have them trying to crawl back. Some only make contact to see if you are interested in them (power game). Some really do want to give it another...

Things have taken a drastic change for my ex. The guy she was seeing at work turned into psychopath. Appearently she wanted to break it off with him and he wouldn't hear of it. I had no idea about...

We all make mistakes, and we all pay a price for it.

Just go! What is a few hours. You mean to tell me you never missed a call from him or visa versa. If that is the case, cheers to you babe, you are one of a kind.

OH NO, you're not serious about your girlfriend!! Holy crap, if my girl told me half the things she said to you, I'd show her *** to the door that very minute, oh sorry make it that second.
I did...

LOL. I couldn't stop laughing. I guess they believe white women are easily fooled. You should see the flock of euro women of all ages come down to africa, just to get boned by african men. Some of...

Wildcat, why do you care why they separated. It is not important. Why do you have to always spill that over and over again. "Was he too nice, women hate that." We get it!! Give it a break! There are...

All right people, don't make me get mid evil on your asses. LOL

So, I feel better just ignoring her at work. I don't even anknowlege her anymore. I know it is driving her up the wall. She brought...

Here is something to make you feel better. Write her a congrats. Say something like, "I'm suprised you are engaded. Someone in their right mind would be engaded to you. Only if they knew the real...

Wildcat do me a favour. Instead of posting blindly. Read my previous posts. Do just go these websites and copy and paste them to here? None of it sounds like your own or makes sense to the context....

So the thing to do here, is to ignore her. Got you. I'll just do that. For some reason I feel better. It is like I've taken back all the power. Man the look on her face, it was like someone slaped...

Update:
Today at work, at the end of our shift (midnight), my ex asked me if I was waiting for her. Before I could answer, she tells me that she was staying late(keep in mind the work place closes...

I did not say, run away. I said leave her. You think by girlalu talking to his girl will make her forget about this other guy who is in another country. He can try, but something tells me, it will...

Good, don't jump into another relationship for a while. But that does not mean you can't date different women and have fun. As for anger issues, it is very normal to feel them. It will come and go. ...

It is true office relationships don't work, but we were together way before she even started to work there.

So what you really saying is, it is not a good idea to work at the same place as your...

Trust me, I know the feeling. She at least is being honest and told you about her feelings towards this other guy (or did she?). It is up to you to make a choice. Can you live with the fact that she...

Well, here is an update. Not much has changed. She is still sneeking around with this other guy at work. Makes me laugh, it is really amusing. Doing this because of me. Sometimes I just feel like...

True true. Most guys will move on, if they find a woman unavialable, but not most women. My point is, become unavialable to her.

Chery is right.
Only time will tell, if they are worth it. In the mean, don't miss out on life. Don't stand still and don't make this person the centre of your universe.

As you know already, they'll call, only when they want to play their games. In my case, the only time my ex called me after the breakup is when she wanted to find out something about me. Never to...

Some people are too insecure and need a relationship to make them feel worth while. They can't stand being alone. Your ex sounds like one of these people.

Trust me, the more you think about her returning to you, the harder it will get for you. Two months is not long enough to heal. There will come a time when, you'll come to realize it is over (time...

People, I think I made a mistake. Today at work, my ex and I got off work at the same time(first time that happened). It was quite late into the night, so I waited up for her around 10 mintues to...

I don't believe I was her first love, well you can say I was the trully the one that showed her love. When she broke it off with me, yes she did blame me for the whole thing. I never believed she...

There is nothing you can do to fix this now. Any attempt to fix this now, will be seen by her as an effort to get her back. Sounds romantic right? Not!! For some reason most women hate the fact that...

I know you don't want to hear this, but don't try to contact him. What good will that do apart from satisfying you. He is already married. Cut your loses and move on. You admitted you made a mistake....

The best way to get back at an ex for dumping you is to keep your dignity. When they break the news to you, remain calm and never create a scene. Walk away with your head high. Usually when they dump...

Thanks for the advise, I was wondering when you would get to my post. Lol
Yeah, I'm taking it one step at a time. It been 5 months now, since the break up. I tell you, its been very hard, and till...

Hey, about the comment he made that is hard to get over someone because he has no one at the moment is crazy. So basically what he saying is that the grass isn't greener on the other side of the...

I know you are. The woman of my dreams. Lol

Be like me. Don't give a dame about what she does. She will do everything in her power to get your attention, then once she has it, she'll start those freaking mind games with you. Don't let her do...

No wildcat, trust me it is not like that at all. She does not see me as insecure or jealous. It is something between us. I've known this girl all most all my life and two years of a serious...

Hi people I'm back. So here is an update.

Well I'm been keeping my ex at arms length at work. Not too much contact, and if there is any contact, its usually jokes and making her laugh(I kid around...

It is never about what you can do to forget about someone. It just takes time. Sometimes going out and meeting someone new might help. I still think about my ex everyday (its been almost 5 months...

Most guys don't want to know. He won't ever be the same if you tell him. If he is trusting now, he will change and look at you differently. He may say he forgives you and lets move on, but reality is...

Sounds like he is having his cake and eating it too. If he is playing around with you, its best you stop seeing him. Zero contact. He can't have it both ways. It will be hard at first. It will get...

I'm sorry for what you're going through. The first stages are the hardest. Trust me, I know. I can say, it will get better with time(depending on you).It must feel like your world is coming to an...