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I don't think she's right for you. Let it go and be happy.
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The only way to deal with life is to have your own life... then share it. Rewards can follow. If one person wants space, just give it to them.
If they wish to work to get you back, so be it, but the...
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Relax. Take your time... you both need time to get over it.
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Sorry, I am not on here as much as I used to be. But you are in good hands with other folks on here :-)! Here's my take on your question...
You got tired of the relationship.
Then she got tired...
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Get your lives together. Communicate a lot and don't be scared to speak your fears I hope it works out.
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She will not die, but she is very depressed and who knows where she went... not in your life anymore. Sure you will torture yourself but you cannot do much more.
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I think he is being a bit immature.
I think you can sense he is a bit uneasy with the reality around him and escaped to the bar. You need to talk and say you trust him and love him, but please don't...
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I think you acted responsibly.
The truth is online relationships are not real.
But I do think she needed help - whether it is psychological or physical. But, you did all you could do. You cannot...
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Not sure any answer other than to spend more time together and see if he:
a) comments on girls
b) comments on guys
c) smiles or looks down when you talk
d) touches you when you talk
e) wants a...
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Keep seeing a counselor... and just so you know now, he or she will not be fazed at all by your story so don't worry. They will not think less of you. They have heard worse and it's their job to let...
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The whole story on both sides sounds clinical and superficial.
Ranks, c-levels, his position etc.. I think you got infatuated and it maybe was moving towards love, and same went for him, but I do...
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Buddy,
Listen to what people are saying.
It will NEVER work.
It CANNOT work.
She can't MAKE it work.
Don't let her problems become yours.
Move the heck on... trust me. I've seen this...
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Don't rush back. She is testing to see if you can be friends at a distance, and keeping options open. I'd stay real busy. Always be super nice when she gets in touch, but don't change your schedule...
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Ask her.
I frankly would like to know the answer.
Say aren't you a bit old to be sharing a bed with your dad?
What kind of pictures does he send?
Where is the mom?
Is she sexually permiscuous?...
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I would suggest paying a psychiatrist once a week for a few months. This involves a child, a mother and heavy depression and obsession. I am not sure you will get too far on your own. May I suggest a...
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Some of us make better long term and married mates than casual boyfriends. You are a committed guy, and so in the end your life will be better. You are trying different things right now, and where...
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I don't normally quote myself but just a reminder from previous post:
"She has shown me nothing to make me say hold on and wait.
Hear me now, believe me later."
Ok, buddy, as time to go NC......
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Whoops. You gave her the power to decide, while you said you will just wait for a verdict - like a criminal in a court room...
A woman has to see your tail lights leaving town before they act.
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Stay awayyy...
Your future is elsewhere.
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Just stay away buddy... at least 90 days of NOT knowing what she is doing. She is not the girl for you but log the days until that makes sense.
Sorry, I know it suxxxxxxxx
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Do you want to marry her and never date anyone else ever?
Do you think that maybe though it hurts that she needs to have your back more if you are going to love her with all your heart?
Don't...
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If it's any consolation I doubt it will work out with him...
... she is going to have to hit restart. But don't be there waiting.
I have been there. I once had a GF that left her BF for me....
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Stay away.
She now has to work for you. Not vice versa...
Get out of there. If she chases you down later she better have a good excuse... saddle up and ride cowboy!
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You are overthinking it. In fact, I am not sure a guy in mid 20's cares about the conversation as much as you think. Insecurity on your part if cute but can also make guys go away if you do not enjoy...
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OK, OK... this is getting too much. How old are you?
Don't let this guy ruin your day. You both sound normal and just figuring things out it in life...
If you want to try something for fun, here...
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You met at 18? Buddy that's young. She is doing you both a favor. You have to go through stages in life or you will not be prepared later. Do as instructed above and try to log 3 months of NC. I know...
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If no, it's between you and your god.
If yes, it may between all three of you.
If I was in your shoes and I knew she was my everything forever, I would probably live with it, and one day - maybe...
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One question: any chance she would EVER learn about it?
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DON'T BE A DOORMAT.
He will not respect you if you do not take action and quietly stick to it.
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Ok, well, that sounded a bit more encouraging.
But, I don't think you can go on forever in denial. If he is tired and not able to make his libido match yours, then he needs to come up with ideas....
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I see this all the time.
Young people move in together.
Life goes on... One day what got excited so intent on sharing a roof is too much reality. He is just maturing slowly... maybe too slowly....
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I am getting tough in my old age.
This guy is not being respectful. He is young and not going through meopauase. He is controlling you by witholding sex, and forcing you to wonder what's wrong. He...
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You know the truth. He's not right for you. I think I can say that and deep down you know it... work through this, but don't let rent fears run your life!
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Ok, this is not very professional but I am just going to say it:
I think you oughta leave the pot smoking, fat eating, no sex having, lazy, drinking, out of shape guy. Are you in good shape? Do...
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No idea. You both sound flirty. So, one more time together my guess is you would know... If you don't it's not worth guessing anymore. Ask HIM out to dinner or let it go if you need a sign.
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I would focus on your career.
The better your career gets the less you'll need a guy with his career...
Not sure if that makes any sense, but a start.
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SPACE!
ASAP!
Read my break up guide. He is testing himself - and maybe you... He and you have seen what responsibility a marriage can be. If it is to be, you will only know after the clarity of...
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Go and get a lap dance?
Ok, kidding aside (sort of) Are you saying you don't like it? I can understand why, but
It's his job right now. And you are dating him. So, unless he plans to go get his...
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He's a fool.
But give him the rings. Why have those things anyway... bad karma.
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You decided to give all of yourself to your last relationship. It worked for you to do this. Next time, maybe it will be more even. As for the niece's present - it's just more giving instead of...
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She is into you. Yes.
I think the bigger question is: are you into your girlfriend?
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I am not sure I see a relationship question in your entry?
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Ok, man, here's the plan:
1. change your phone
2. block her emails
I know this seems harsh BUT she will NEVER make you happy. EVER. So do it now or regret it later... she is sort of harassing...
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How do you know?
When you don't need to ask.
Keep going and see if the questions lessen and lessen... Hope so.
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What I meant was... If you are not SURE you want to marry her, then it's easy: you don't have to tell her cause it's going to end anyway:-) If you do, then you have a tough decision to make. I don't...
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