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I have a problem with forgiveness, I don't really know how to. How do I forgive someone and want to be there friend if the purposly hurt me. I don't have time for people like that. It makes me really...

I thought that too... maybe she isn't over him. And that's why she's is being hurtful, but come on, she's the one that did this. And she has a boyfriend, who apparently she thinks is the one. So I...

Yea before I was thinking I am going to have to choose... but after her delibrately hurtfull comments... its changed to do I want to even be her friend. If its not this guy... who else?

The both of us are 25 and he is 30. If that helps at all. I didn't want this to turn into a fight, nor did I imagine that it would come to this. I figured we are both adults and should be able to...

I know the answer I should pick her over him. But there's more to the story, and I am wondering if my friend is really a friend at all. First and foremost, My best and the guy dated for a few weeks,...

I just don't want to get rejected that's all, and I kind of did ask him about plans for the weekend and he replied days later on Saturday and he said he was snowboarding and that he hoped I was...

Hes a friend of a friend, over the last 2 years I have seen him 3 or 4 times. I hadn't seen him about a year and he added me to Facebook, sent him a message and it took him a while to get back to me....

Those where my exact words. Much much better. Watch what you say to some people. Might mean nothing to you, but it could mean the world to them. I am one for honest and upfront opinions. But name...

I call it like I read it. Is that better for you? Her actions? By sending him a friendly text? She's a stalker? By wondering why he unblocked her, she's a stalker. I see. Your right. Thanks so much...

When someone attacks my friends without even knowing her it upsets me, sorry. ANyone else want to give it a shot?

I just call it like I see it. And I am a woman. Just wondering what the difference is between calling someone and idiot or a stalker? Take your own "classy" advice.

Can you read? He WAS ignoring her. Now he's not. I didn't know that sending someone a text was being a stalker. She has a life has a new boyfriends who is awsome. My advise to her is to leave him...

You didn't give me an answer at all. Take a hint? What would that be? He unblocked her on msn... so the hint would be to get a life? Wow your amazing.

You're an idiot... she has a life. She's totally over him, but there friendship means a lot to her. What hint would that be? He obviously wants something if he's unblocking her on msn.

Could we...

Hey you.
I will make this very quick. A friend of mine needs some advise (apparently mine is not good enough) She was dating this guy and they were really happy together (I barley ever saw her) then...

Wow... kinda going through the same thing... but I know he's already cheated on her... with me. Now I didn't know at the time he had a new girlfriend. Of course he failed to mention it. And it turns...

I feel guilty about my number. It should be higher. A lot higher. :)

To the lying, cheating, pathetic, insecure, controlling, no good, manipulative, heartless, inconsiderate, waste of space, scum of the earth, loser that came into my life and didn't leave until he had...

Yes I have been in a similar situation where I felt like I had to be "on" all the time. Guess what? Didn't work. You can only pretend to be someone for so long. Because eventually you get tired of...

What you are going through is normal, and almost everyone of us has been through what you are going through right now. And we are all still here, some at different stages then others. I know you...

The reason why he is doing this to you is because you have allowed it! He knows he can tell you what you want to hear. Stay on his best behaviour until you let your guard down and then he's back at...

OK please do. And best of luck.

OK let me make this very blunt. You tell her all or nothing... and you have a 50% chance of her coming back one day, once she relizes that she has made a mistake. OR you have a 100% chance of forever...

I have never had thios situation happen to me, so obviously its hard for me to make judgement. The way I feel though, is if you told this guy no, and he forced you physically to have intercourse,...

I totally agree, you need some legal advise from someone who knows the rules and laws where u live.

Tell her its all or nothing... it will hurt too much to be friends and if you agree to be her friend, she will only walk all over you. And expect you to be there when she needs you and when she...

She does need to do this for herself. And don't get mad at her for that. She needs to grow up, be independent, and do her own thing. Respect her space. Don't call don't text. DO NOT contact her at...

OK what you have done can not be undone. So I am not going to comment on the size of your balls. But seriously think about it, do you want to be with someone that obviously doesn't care about you...

Isn't I sneeze funny a dude?

he gets where I am coming from with the situation is just too messed up. But he says that he can look past it. Unfortunately I cannot. He tells me that I am throughing away something good, for no...

I know its long... but its juicy. :) Its been forever since I have posted anything. I love the man to dealth, but I love ME MORE! :) Techniqually we have been broken up since Feb, but we have been...

You need to move out, and start doing things on your own. What woman wants a man that is constatly relying on other for everything. You should go NC. And figure out what you want. Do you want to be...

I think that's almost like emotional cheating. Would you do it to him? Do you want to always be checking his phone? Will this always be in the back of your mind? I would wonder why is she referring...

You handled that very well. I hope when the time comes where that happens to me, I can be mature like you. Congrats.

How long has it been for NC?

I wouls start by saying "get out". If he doesn't listen, call the police, get a restraining order, do whatever you have to do to protect you... but most imporantly your children.

Something must have happened for him to act that way. Maybe something that you are not aware about? How many times and what have you done to contact him?

Did u say no to him that night? Cause you can't just get drunk, lead a guy on, and then wake up the next morning thinking that he took advantage of you. Rape is a very serious accusation, and you...

There's a reason for each why it never worked out. And you'll know that reason when you find the right one. So for now just enjoy life and date, and it will happen when its right! Best of luck.

Know your worth.

Givenchy the one in the blue bottle... heaven! ;)

I agree No Contact. Don't talk to him, and if he tries to contact you ignore him. If he cares about you and wants to be with you enough. He will let you know. If not his loss. Hes seems very immature...

I agree maybe you should seek some professional help. Nobody is worth you life. NOBODY. You will never be able to succeed in any relationship until you love yourself first. Take some time work on...

"Dont it alwasy seem to go, that you dont know what youve got till its gone." Don't make the same mistake with the next one. Would you even want to be with some that had no back bone and would just...

NO. You cannot judge a whole race because of one person. One of my exes was greek. A wonderful man, very honest, tooo honest to say the least. That's like judging all women to be stupid, because of...

First you need to find out if any of this is true. Call the cousin, call the ho. See who's story makes more sense. If you break up with him without knowing the facts you will just feel guilt and...

Go NC. Don't contact him at all. Don't answer his calls or text etc. Let him stew for a little bit. Heard the saying you don't know what you've got till its gone. Either he will come chasing after...

You have your negotiables and your non negotiables. Which list is poor maners, immaturity, and selfishness on? Its your list only you know. Write down a list 10 non- negotiables, in order of...

I was with my #1... for 7 years. Took about a month to meet #2 and get over #1. Not much pain at all. Was with #2... offically for 6 months. But he came in and out of my life regularly. So...

This is my worst fear. I know it will happen one day though. I am sooo sorry for your loss. Take care. Keep your chin up.