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The girl I'm seeing has told me that she is infatuated in me but doesn't know if she can fall in love with me. (Big difference between being in love and infatuated).

I'm not sure what I want,...

Am in a similar situation and am curious to hear your situation right now.

The girl I'm seeing has told me that she is infatuated in me but doesn't know if she can fall in love with me. (big...

Always glad to share, thanks!

Just felt like ventilating this but feel free to comment:

So after speaking to a friend of mine he revealed what apparently was a secret even to her friends. He is the partner of my ex stepmothers...

Par for the course, great expression for what needs to be done.
Better to focus on everything else happening? Lots of people there I've been wanting to meet.
I just want to mentally prepare for...

Tal:
Yeah, I thought about that too. Decided to go shortly after writing my request for advice and am pretty confident about it.

As usual it's always the initial scare that's the worst but I...

Hi,

I've received tremendous help earlier with how to handle my ex situation. Which is why I'm returning to ask for some more advice.

Problem is that I'm going to my best friends B-day party in...

Hm, I really don't know what to say about you getting married so fast as well as getting a kid. Now that you've done that you have to accept it and put all of your heart into it. You need to take...

Being around people who manipulate you in that way just to feel better about themselves are really bad in overall. If you don't want to stay away from them then you need to be fully honest with them...

Nobody wants to be a backup, no less a rebound. Keep on concentrating on you all the time. You will have your weak moments, as do most of us, when you can't help but think about her. But this fades...

Ya, I'm in the same boat here except without the engagement part. I previously asked her not to contact me and it really has been working. I am glad I didn't find out right away about their...

NC is the golden route.

I wouldn't stay too close to someone who takes anti-depressants and then cheats on you. This is a down hill spiral in which he needs the kick of cheating on you as a form av anti depressant.

I...

I got out of a relationship not too long ago and if there is one thing I do not miss, then it's her insecurity about herself. Jealousy is a big and possibly worst sign of insecurity as it can...

Just removed her from all my social site accounts. Felt like a huge load was just lifted off my back to be honest.

GCMoney25: Yeah I see what you mean. Naturally I want to be in control of what I...

It's comforting to hear that a lot of you have gone through similar situations.
Before the break up I didn't really have a good idea about how these things worked. Just pure chaos really. Reading...

Really appreciate all the fast replies.

Aleeravilu: Very true about not thinking about the person and how not to think in that manner. Up until today I've had lots of days without thinking about...

Hey everybody,
Have been reading so many comments and discussions on this site which have really helped me get on with my life.
I really love this place.

So here's my story:

I'm 25 years old...