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Hi everyone. Bit of back ground quick. I met a girl last week "s" whilst out in town at my fav club, she came with one of my newer friends who I was meeting "j" . At the time I was convinced she was...

Doesn't sound very classy of her to tell you she has a crush on someone else, what's that about! Your supposed to be the only guy she is interested in period. Although its easier said than done,...

Thanks people, I just panicked a bit because I being taking everyone's advice so well, but I'm worried that it hasn't worked correctly or something, there's NC. I go to the gym to improve myself,...

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Its been 6 months and I can't forget my ex, I accidentally saw a pic of her online, and almost broke down as if its only just happened! its like what the hell! I know I'm quite...

Just make sure you know you did the best that you could do. With the information you had at the time.
And that's all anyone really can do..

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I think this is a brillaint...

True true. I just have that feeling of dread ill find out from someone. I just hope I've worked on myself enough for it not to bother me. I'm getting there. I just feel a bit out the ordinary wanting...

Id say it would bother me, if she had the nerve to bring it into a argument. Otherwise not at all, id respect it and kind of be flattered she's not with me for the money!

If an ex you cared about met someone before you, would this bother you? Would you take it personally? It seems easier said then done, that it shouldn't bother you, its just them moving on. But...

Hiya guys, last night I went out with my mates to just have a laugh at a club like we usually do, but id say about half an hour in my mate looked across theroom and kind of laughed and said "oh...

Yeah you guys make a lot of sense thank you, its been very hard to stay relaxed unforuantly, I have just been beating myself up over the fact that all these anx's have come back to haunt me, I...

Hi guys, I'm having a bit of a problem id like a bit of advice on. Since I have been single about 6 months I've had sum real ups and downs, but I'm glad to say my life is still going on meeting new...

Sex in a relationship is a completely different situation to a one night stand, you actually have to find out stuff about this person, discover what his/her sexual preferences are, and even get...

Sorry mate didn't realise the new details! Personally I would have put that sort of info in an update of the main post! But each to their own.:p good luck with your issues, I can't imagine why she...

I don't agree at all with anyone saying you should try and get back with her. No matter how much you love (d) her SHE ended, and SHE should make the first move to rekindle. If she doesn't well.. *&$!...

Its been two months since my ex broke up with me, and I still don't feel like I have any closure. Because I still keep trying to pinpoint a REAL reason for why it ended. I don't want her back AT ALL...

You isn't pathetic, your just trying to deal with a situation, which you cared deeply about. Your worth more than waiting around for her,

OK after deciphering through your grammactical errors lol:o this does sound unfortuanate, you never said how long you were together? Was through religion you never got physical with her? What ever...

Convince yourself, that you can go nc, and you don't need to know what she's doing. That is the first hurdle, 5 years in a huge amount of time, you clearly have the skills to maintain a healthy...

Thanks everyone. Yeah it has been 2 months, and id say a month and a half of NC, which I'm glad about.. I think how I have been reacting is maybe deep down just a childish defence I'm trying to put...

Hey guys I have posted on this forum before about my problem dealing with a break up, and I'm glad to say its been 2 months of NC and I'm getting better.

The problem I'm having is finding what I...

I feel very similar to you mate, When I met my ex everyone would always ask how she managed to get me! All of her friends said it, but after a year and a half, and falling for her, it felt like it...

My break up was around the 8/20, I'm still struggling mate, broke the nc rule today actually big mistake, stay strong and delete all numberss... its not meant to be 95% of relationships don't ever...

Thanks kt, that's good advice with the possesions and stuff, I got rid of it all, sept sum clothes that I like, I'm being selfish with them! Thanks for the best wishes too:)... I'm starting my life...

Cheers guys.. oh yeah I definantly given space, I couldn't handle getting back with her even if that was an option! I think that's one sign I've made a little bit of progress over the last month.....

Hey I'm having some real trouble dealing with one of the results of a nasty break up. I'm 20 and last month my first love of 1.5 years broke it off with me, I was devastated, still am obviously, she...

Brillaint post.. I'm at the point of serious no contact now, I've tried all the other options I was hoping for, so I'm glad in way that I'm being forced to no contact what so ever, I'm pretty...

Mate I'm going through and almost IDENTICAL situation, I'm 20, my first love in every sense of the meaning, 1.5 years with, broke it off with me about a month ago, and it killed me, I'm here looking...