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Call her for pete's sake... No use wondering and worrying your life away on what's going on with her or her head.

Or, give her a surprise visit and talk to her in person.

Hi again everyone,

I posted previously my problem about my guy. I don't want to lose him and thought that maybe askmehelpdesk.com can give me some advise on how to deal with it. Everyone here...

Wow, isn't it too early to talk about marriage when you can hardly stay together or break up all the time?

You have to be mature to get into that. Are you and your girlfriend is ready?

Why pursue someone you know who already has a boyfriend? Back off... Be a friend. If you don't want to spoil their relationship, leave her and tend to your brokenheart and move on.

Would it make you feel better dumping her if I say I think she's fooling around with another guy?

You're a worrier just like me. I go nuts whenever my guy doesn't call/text me enough. What kept me...

Moving sounds risky but if you feel this is an excellent career move and will be beneficial to your experience, I encourage you to it. Some people are so career-driven, they are almost indifferent to...

If you could have at least told us why you two broke up it wouldve been easier for us to give you a good advice.

How do you get back with an ex? Well, you have to know the reason why you broke up...

Well, got to agree with Eura's post.

Call B. By knowing how he is now will give you an idea what to do next. Just don't expect too much out of it, its been two yrs so lotsa things couldve happened.

Good luck!

Ok, I read your previous post because I wasn't sure why you two broke up in the first place... this your talking about is the same one who smokes right?

Anyway, I just think you're wasting your...

Its strange how your boyfriend never considered LDR. How young are you?

Well, its normal for couples to split up before moving to another state/country. Some people find it hard to keep their...

She's a girl with a dilemma. Don't force yourself on this. She has valid reasons so respect her decision to put a distance.

All you can be for now is a friend. Be a gentleman on this matter and...

I copied and paste a small portion of a writing I stumbled upon in the net. I hope it would enlighten you a bit.

"...Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come...

Wow, are you sure this new girl is worth more or even the same as your girlfriend? What caused your on-off relations with your girlfriend? Boredom?

You do know know that its risky entertaining...

I remember posting an answer to your question earlier.

Anyway, no matter how sweet and adorable your ex is, he still dumped you to play a game with this girl and the game is not over and you are...

Do you really trust her? If you do, then there's nothing to worry.

Stop worrying your life away. If she decides to sleep with another guy, then she's not the girl for you and accept that. You...

Sounds like a rollercoaster ride.

You two seem to be not good with expressing your feelings. Its full of dramas and its something I find very toxic. There's no benefit on forcing yourself to...

Seems like your girlfriend is having a dilemma and you need to give her the time she needs to sort out her own feelings.

Don't force her to be in a relationship she's not sure of. It would only...

Do you know why she asked for space in the first place?

Such instances are caused by partner's being too possessive or asking for too much attention.

You know she loves you, this is a good...

What exactly are your worries? I believe its best that you know every one of them so you can sort it out accordingly. What does she do that makes you feel insecure? Know this and discuss it with your...

One month may have felt forever but soon you will be healed and look at the past with a smile. It's a live and learn experience. You will be more mature this time and be thankful for what you have...

Leave her alone if you can't accept the way she is. IF you try to force yourself on this, prepare yourself to be disappointed.

WHen you love someone, don't expect them to change for you. We have...

Communication is not the only key for a successful LDR. Maturity plays a crucial role and planning for the future helps too esp when both of you are in the right age to do it.

Physical presence...

Reading that just gave me a headache! :) Don't do that again...

Anyway, seems like he's a confused guy so I don't suggest you demand him to choose between you and the girlfriend. You know what...

He can't afford you, what more when one day you two have to live together with kids and mortgages and all that?

It seems that he's type who doesn't try his best to make things work. You also seem...

Im kind of curious what your "certain flaws he can't deal with". If the answer is such a big deal to him, why'd he kept sleeping with you?

I know you love him and willing to do ANYTHING for him...

Wow, he's obviously tasteless. From your story, I think he's simply bored and felt strangled by you.

Any signs that he's seeing someone else?

He seems to be busy, why not find another outlet to...

Smile. The typical teeny-smile always do wonders. :)

Since you two seem to be getting along pretty well, try checking what his interests are and see if you can be part of it. Say, art club, drama...

Some people like playing games and its apparent you are part of it and your boyfriend is the prize.

If you are willing to play this game, go for it. But take note that the guy dumped you. "Break"...

By the way, don't go to him. You will be wasting your money for a guy who will never change for anyone including you. Is this the type of guy you want to emotionally invest on?

Good luck!

Hi Marlene,

I almost cried after reading your story and believe me when I say my ex do the same thing with me.

He flirts with girls online (call them as friends), even broke up with me so he...

Your story is a bit vague.

I feel sad and lonely when my guy doesn't call/text me enough. Best remedy I found are sports and doing busy things like going out with friends and joining a club.
...

I can imagine when you said that 'shes just about everything'...

Ive met several girls in my lifetime to know what type of girl she is... she's extremely beautiful, sweet and one smile of hers...

I think you did the right thing by not contacting her. Gave you both the clear mind you need to look at what happened.

She loves you but she's smart because its risky to be in a relationship...

Im in a LDR as well and my guy does the same thing (not calling, texting) when he's doing 'something out of the ordinary'... call it paranoia but it's a gut feeling I have since I caught him...

Thanks guys for your inputs... I felt he really wanted out so what to do right?

Its just so sad how things were so sweet and perfect then suddenly, all dies down.

Im just afraid that one day...

If I say "i need space" but doesn't want to break up, it means that Im in a lot of pressure right now and I don't want someone breathing down my neck.

Give her a week or two or until she comes...

Im in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We see each other like every other month. Hes sweet and charming and we know each other very well and take that into account whenever we are...