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    skittles2120 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 24, 2010, 08:25 PM
    Relationship troubles
    OK my name is andrea and I'm young and pretty these past two months my partner doesn't let me touch his phone and at night I sneak but he already erased everything he's always putting me down I don't know mif you call this abuse but he's temper sometimes gets the best of him hell grab my wrist and push me I love him but I don't know what to do
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    Jul 24, 2010, 08:48 PM

    Leave. It will only get worse. Please do not use text speak.
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    Jul 24, 2010, 08:50 PM

    If he is putting you down and grabbing your wrist when he gets mad, he is very close to being very abusive.

    You should dump him while your ahead and you are picking up on these obvious ques that he isn't going to treat you right.

    Add on that he is erasing his phone history/messages, it's not even worth trying to figure this guy out.
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    Jul 24, 2010, 08:57 PM

    In your other thread you said you had moved and had no friends. Why not post one thread that includes this information and the one about being new in town and having no friends.

    The reason I say this is we would have more imformation to work with and we could give you better advice.
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    Jul 25, 2010, 12:11 PM

    By you wanting to sneak at your b/f phone you're invading his privacy, what is on his phone is his personal business. You are wrong to want to sneak at his phone.

    However he is showing signs of being abusive and if you stay with him you run a huge risk of him becoming physically violent with you.

    I suggest you leave this relationship whilst you're still in one piece. Do yourself a favour don't invade anothers privacy and don't stay with a person who is very likely going to end up harming you.

    You appear to also have trust issues so it seems this relationship is toxic.
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    Jul 25, 2010, 12:14 PM

    Remember the phrase, "Secrets dont make friends, and friends dont make secrets"?

    Same rules apply in a relationship.. If he is being extra protective over his phone, the more then likely he is hiding something.

    Don't waste your time on someone who has the potential of cheating on you and/or hurting you emotionally or physically. Just bow out gracefully and move on.

    People who treat others like that don't deserve to be with people like you. You do deserve better. Keep telling yourself that and get out now.
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