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    loveher4eva Posts: 77, Reputation: 3
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    Aug 23, 2011, 01:18 PM
    Is a relationship likely to last if both partners have cheated?
    If a relationship starts as an affair, and not only that but both partners have cheated on each other within the first 6 month of the relationship, is it likely to last? Can they every truly be happy?
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    Aug 23, 2011, 01:40 PM
    Anything is possible, but they're not off to a good start in terms of being able to trust each other.
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    Aug 23, 2011, 01:49 PM
    Hhmmmmmmm I was hoping to hear no they will never be happy and it ill never work lol
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    Aug 23, 2011, 05:18 PM
    Anything could happen, but starting with that is going to create a lot of trust issues from the beginning and the relationship has more of a chance to crash and burn. Depends on who the two people are, however, if these are the terms you have to ask yourself: Is there really a RELATIONSHIP?

    Good Luck,
    Javi
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    Aug 23, 2011, 06:46 PM
    Two lying cheaters should get along great, don't you think.
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    Aug 24, 2011, 08:22 PM
    Depends if you believe in Karma.
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    Aug 25, 2011, 04:32 AM
    Don't believe in karma as much just habbit and its consistancy. Both have always lied and cheated and weather its sooner or later habit will kick in and the same will happen to them.
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    Aug 25, 2011, 07:20 AM
    I always hope that when two people begin a relationship it will last. No matter what a person's background is, I hope they can find someone who is right for them. If they can overcome the past and move forward, great. It's their life and I hope they find the love they are so desperately looking for.

    Why should I focus my energy on wishing ill for someone who isn't in my life? Thinking positive thoughts makes me much happier and more open to seeing the good qualities in my life such as how I feel about the person I am with who loves and cares about me. If I had focused on someone else's relationship, I might have missed out on a lifetime full of living and love.
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    Aug 27, 2011, 07:30 PM
    Here's one way to find out:

    Stop worrying about them. Be about you.

    See what happens.
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