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    shyrivv Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 24, 2013, 09:11 PM
    Relationship advice (I get jealous way too easy)
    How do I deal with it? I see him look at a girl and I'm like he must do that all the time when he thinks I'm not looking. He wants someone else or something. The girls that he talked too and stuff are girls he used to like and I didn't find that okay too me.. I get mad when he feels like he has too go and push other girls and like mess with them that too me seems like he's flirting. Am I be overly jealous or am I being reasonable. Input would deffiantly be appreciated thanks!
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    Mar 24, 2013, 09:56 PM
    Hello Shy,

    I am sorry to hear about your jealousy issues. First and foremost I think you should talk to him about this. Don't use any accusatory tone but show him that it hurts you. If he is serious about you he will take this into consideration and likely reduce or stop his actions. I can only make assumptions on your situation but I think that while you may be projecting insecurities about the relationship on his actions he is still at fault for his flirtatious action. Talk to him and express this insecurity. Remember though, he is with you and not them. That says a lot in itself. Stay strong and remember that if he is with you than you are likely who he wants to be with. Goodluck, and keep us updated!

    -fdsaqwerish
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    Mar 26, 2013, 12:03 PM
    If you really know that its you and your jealous behaviour then better be try to get over this attitude. Because this way you only ruin your relationship. If it's him then you concern is serious, talk to him clearly or he might be cheating.
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    Mar 26, 2013, 12:07 PM
    He is with you for a reason and not them but if something is bothering you, you need to talk to him about it. Tell him why it bothers you. He may never even thought it seemed like he was flirting.
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    Mar 26, 2013, 01:15 PM
    You need to ask yourself why you are so insecure and get over it, or you will not have a healthy relationship with anybody. How old are you and how long have you and this guy been together. Does he have a record of cheating?
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