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    inalu Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 21, 2019, 04:20 AM
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    Hi I am in a distance relationship, with the father of two kids cheated on me and make the girl pregnant, the gal was sending their pictures to my phone or call me when his with me, they broke up but yet raising this child, he doesn't want me to say I am coming he wants me to wait for him to miss him, we were suppose to meet this week as its his birthday he told me Saturday that his granny died and his not sure where his going to the funeral or but I must not come and see him this week I said to him but you are not sure whether you going to the funeral and yet you are stopping me he said I must take a leave and sit at home bcs he told me that he may go to the funeral I c things my way then he asked me that can we not talk I said OK, imagine I haven't c the guy this ye I love him and he knows that but I don't like the way he do things when I talk to him hell tell me to dump him, what must I do it doesn't make me feel good at all, should I call and say happy birthday to him on Friday
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    Jan 21, 2019, 07:16 AM
    Is your love enough to chase after a guy who has other priorities other than you really, worth it? Wishing him happy birthday is the least of your worries, and how he shares his life with you deserves far more attention. Not only should you wish him a happy birthday, give him the gift he asks for...DUMP HIM!

    It may not feel good NOW, but later you will feel much better, because you will be free to find happiness with someone who will be happy with YOU.

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