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    raichund Posts: 33, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 3, 2008, 09:22 AM
    Old memories he keeps brinign up?
    So me and my ex boyfriend are still in contact he chnaged his status to single on my space deleted pics etc and wer moving on, although we have split over the fone (2 months back) not seen each other and our relationship was good and bad had lots arguments and break ups, because we wer each others 1sts, tink we want to deep down experienceother people before we realise what is rite or not, although he cheated whilst we wer together and I forgave.

    Recently he has mentioned past things like remba when we used to do this and that and when you chose this etc etc, previously we had just tlked about normal stuff weather etc is he trying to get back I'm so ocnfused can someone help and before you start answer ing move on, it doesn't work second chnace, love urelf I no all of that I just want to no what you guys think is going on in his mind?
    Cheers guys
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    Sep 3, 2008, 10:06 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by raichund
    Recently he has mentioned past things like remba wen we used to do this and that and wen u chose this etc etc, previously we had just tlked about normal stuff weather etc is he trying to get back im so ocnfused can someone help and b4 u start answer ing move on, it doesnt work second chnace, love urelf i no all of that i just want to no what you guys think is going on in his mind?
    cheers guys
    When he starts reminiscing about the past fondly with you, it is a sign that he feels both you have moved on to the point that he can talk to you about the "good old times". I was able to talk to one of my ex-GF like that when we were both completely over each other and we got together once and were able to talk about and laugh about our past together. It was comfortable to talk about it because neither of us got emotional or anything - a sign that we moved on.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Sep 6, 2008, 04:42 PM
    Why don't you ask him what's on his mind?? Then you can get the truth, and not opinions, and assumptions.

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