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jretti · May 13, 2008, 10:01 AM

Does anybody have a clue as to the odds of getting someone back after she breaks up with you. There are no hard feelings and no anger between us. She just said her feelings have changed. Are there any odds that she might come back to me??

brian1231 · May 13, 2008, 10:14 AM

You have a 0% chance if you push her. I'd play it cool, play it hard to get. Make her WANT you back.

I bet you $1,000 that if you stay single, away from her, in 2 months YOU are the one not wanting her back.

jretti · May 13, 2008, 10:18 AM

Thanks Brian. I will continue to keep my distance. However I hope it never comes to "me not wanting her"...

Chery · May 13, 2008, 10:22 AM

Betting on a relationship is not a wise thing to do. You could win or lose, but would it make you happy in the longrun...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ck-215464.html?

If the advice in your other thread on the same subject is not what you want to 'hear', and you don't take time to reflect, then my guess is that all bets are off.

Hope you achieve your goal - but you'll have your homework to do, as life is never easy.

Romefalls19 · May 13, 2008, 10:30 AM

There is no chance, her feelings have changed. Nothing you can do about it except from learn from the relationship and move on. Now you have learned not to make someone else a priority in life. Yourself is the person you should be more focused on, stop worrying if she will come back. Worrying is like a rocking chair, gives you something to do but not much else. I'm going to tell you one more time, go NC and live YOUR life not waiting around for some girl that isn't going to come back

How old are you?

bigbird213 · May 13, 2008, 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by jretti

Thanks Brian. I will continue to keep my distance. However i hope it never comes to "me not wanting her"....

You say that now, but soon you will realize that is exactly what you need. Without that sort of feeling, you won't heal.

miller3 · May 13, 2008, 11:17 AM

Romefalls is right. Its always a possibility she will come back but when is the question but not something you should count on. Things could change for the better and for the worse. I do not know the whole story behind your questioning. The only thing I can say is leave her alone, I am sure she knows how you feel and its very crucial at this time to just let time go by.

Chery · May 13, 2008, 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by jretti

Thanks Brian. I will continue to keep my distance. However i hope it never comes to "me not wanting her"....

You may think so now, but believe me, when the right one comes along, you'll want that one more and the old ex will fade away, or like in the movies, ride off into the sunset. That's real life.

I still want David Caruso, but am satisfied with my dreams of him and watching his character on C.S.I. Miami.

talaniman · May 15, 2008, 07:59 AM

Are there any odds that she might come back to me??

O, zilch, nada. Why should she?? Stop wasting time on false hope, and what if, and get busy on you. Keep it moving.

Romefalls19 · May 15, 2008, 08:01 AM

I just gave you a greenie Tal, so I can't again but once again you have hit the nail on the head! We aren't all in the same room mutually agreeing to give you this advice. This advice is in your best interest