My next door neighbor was robbed recently. Do you feel guilty about it? You have neighbors, too, right? So, using her logic it's perfectly reasonable for me to blame and punish YOU for my neighbor getting robbed, right? Right?
Wrong. There is no connection between your actions and any previous experience she has had. None. Similarities are random coincidence. They mean nothing. Well, they mean nothing to reasoning people.
If her fuse is THAT short, if she is that paranoid, you want to chase her down WHY EXACTLY? You need all this drama aimed at you? I promise that if you get this worked out and get back to talking to her, she will find more ways to put you on defense, and for things that have nothing to do with you at all seem to be fuel for this as well. That doesn't bode well. If you're fine with that, if this kind of behavior turns you on, then go for it.
Just make sure you accept this before you dive in. That's honest.
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