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    alicelacroix Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 5, 2013, 07:58 PM
    Nice guy with different personalities and stupid friends ! HELP
    Hi there

    Well I met this lovely guy in one of my trips, I was studying abroad and as life is unpredictable
    I tried live the moment and enjoy as much as I could
    And I told him that.

    He introduce me to his family straight away and they were really nice and I get along with them really easily.

    The thing was, his friends were really nasty to me, apart from the visible rudeness, many times ignoring me.
    The first time I met some of them they were really stupid and shocked that I could actually speak english. The last time that one of them pissed me off he ask me if I wanted to suck him off.. The only thing That I could think was "are this people for real ? Bunch of douchbags

    But what bothers me the most is that he doesn't take an attitude towards his friends, (or if he really says something, they don't care. I feel like they don't respect him or they hate me too much) because they just keeping doing the same disrespectful things
    And maybe because we are from different backgrounds I find a bit hard to understand some of his attitudes

    As an example

    He is great, but doesn't have a clue how to show affection.
    I mean when is just the two of us he acts weird ? What the heck !
    However, when he is drunk he is normal (in the way I like a balance between sweet n' naughty)
    Until he drinks too much and change again ! To this awful wierdo that say nonsense things and passes out.


    So my question is do I'm the problem ? I have to try to understand or I'm right to tell him to off ?
    Because I already did that..

    But sometimes I feel guilty.. and miss him..

    Thank you Guys


    Ps: He says I'm moody and he doesn't understands me.
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    Jan 5, 2013, 08:19 PM
    Break up with him. If a man allows his friend to say such a humiliating, degrading thing to any woman in his company without correction, he's not a man. He either has no backbone to stand up to his friends, condones you being grossly disrespected or doesn't care. You've described a nice guy who you see as immature, awkward and hard to understand, and who admits that he doesn't understand you. That's the perfect description of the wrong guy for you.

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