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Tblotouch · May 26, 2011, 08:39 PM

I met my new girlfriend a week ago through a cousin of mine. She is also related to my cousin somehow. She is the most beautiful thing ever and we went out a couple of times. When we are together everything is so heavenly, at least from my side. My problem is that she uses two phones. One for texting and one for calls. Its almost impossible to get hold of her when I call. She said she prefers texting and we text each other the whole day. She normally picks up the phone when she is expecting me to come pick her up. I am working and she is still in college and I understand she got classes to attend. She calls me during the day which I appreciate very much but whenever I try to call at night it becomes a mission to get hold of her. Her text-only phone just rings and her calls-only phone is off.She would later reply via text and say she is busy and I should chat via text as well. Sometimes she says she is busy and she will call back but it never happens. I understand it is still early but something doesn't add up. We went out the other night and after dropping her at her place I called her when I got home only to find that the phone is off. Am I breathing down her neck or am I being played here?

Jwr5885 · May 26, 2011, 08:56 PM

That's tough call man it's hard to say it could really go either way. I think you should ask her why she only wants to text and feel her out to see if she is hiding something. I wouldn't press to hard but when u ask her see how she responds. If she gets mad or tries to change the subject chances are she is. That's shady business right there and a Lil strange to boot. I mean it is only a week into the relationship so I would be careful how much emotion you invest in her at least for now.

ironhide262 · May 26, 2011, 11:27 PM

Holy smokes guy, slow down!

It's only been a few dates and she's your girlfriend already? Exclusive?

You text and talk all day but, that doesn't seem to be enough for you... time to back off on those expectations. You're just getting to know her so, don't assume anything or let your emotions get the best of you. Dating is about learning all you can about the other person before you make an emotional investment.

If her phone is off then I guess she in unavailable. If the dates are fun, keep going and find out more about her.

emopunk7 · May 27, 2011, 12:25 AM

Ironhide is right!

Tblotouch · May 27, 2011, 01:27 AM

Cool, guess I have to slow down! Thanks guys!

talaniman · May 27, 2011, 04:39 PM

Find out who you are dealing with before you get all gung ho, and carried away by a pretty face.

DoulaLC · May 27, 2011, 04:51 PM

Have you asked her why she uses two phones?