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    Dec 18, 2008, 02:33 PM
    Needing space
    I have been with my boyfiend 19 months almost 2 years everything between us was going fine until I got suspended from work but after 1 month I'm currently back at work my boyfiend told me he needs his space for a month to a month and a half we haven't aruged or had any major arguments I love him with all my heart but for a month it hurts to be wihout him he told me not to call just give him time and trust that he is going to come back ever since he told me this I feel crushed my heart hurts and all I do is cry he says I need to spaend time with my daughter he doesn't want me and her to have the kind of relationship that my mother has we really don't get along to well he told me we just need time apart I don't know what to do what if he decides he doesn't want to come bsck it will literlly break me down I love this man with my whole heart and I have never been so happy in a relationship:(:(:( what shoul I do what if we break up permantely
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    Dec 18, 2008, 02:53 PM

    Well, it is pretty painful when someone asks for space... total space, but I guess you should just give it to him...

    If you don't it might result in something far worse then if you do give it to him...
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    Dec 20, 2008, 12:14 PM

    I don't know how old you are, but when someone asks for time, or space from a relationship, you give it to them, and focus on doing the things that makes you happy, and enjoying your own life. If you don't have one, now is the perfect time to get one.

    Deal with your feelings in a positive way, and take full responsibility for your own happiness.

    I think you will survive just fine, if you love yourself, and do good things for yourself.

    You put your life on hold, for no one, don't you deserve better? Then don't depend on him, to be happy, or feel good about yourself, or your life.
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