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    jinxxxy Posts: 11, Reputation: 2
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:21 PM
    Mother and daughter problems because of a guy!
    Guys I'm living with a BIG problem! There's this guy I met 2 weeks ago.. We are so in love with each other and never want to be apart! When I'm with him all my problems go away and I've never been so overwhelmed by antibody's love. But you see, I have to hide it from my mom because she judges a person so quick and doesn't understand how happy I am around him..

    I'm 20 now, and she still carries on like in I'm school or something (she won't approve of this boy cause he has tattoos. But how unfair is it to judge a person on his looks, because he is really a nice guy)!

    I really need your help! What can I do? I don't want to mess up a thing between this guy and I, but is that going to mean lying to my mom for the rest of my life! Because believe me she over reacts on absolutely everything!
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:34 PM
    Why are you still living at home at the ancient age of 20? You should be long gone and on your own and acting like an adult.
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:37 PM
    I just moved back home like a month ago.. I stayed on my own for 2years now. That's also why its so hard for us because I'm use to doing my own thing.. Now there's all these rules and it bothers me soooo much!! We fight so much!
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:38 PM
    Why are there rules? You're an adult now. I hope you are able to move out soon.
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:43 PM
    :( me too seriously.. I dono why there's rules :( last night she sayed I had to be back home at 11 so I phoned her and sayed I'm ganna be a bit late.. Got home at half past 12 :( and she freaked out and sayed things like I will never ever go out again as long as I'm living with her.. :( I need to move out you? And be on my own..
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:48 PM
    Interesting that your writing style and spelling is that of a 14 year old. Well, I hope things work out for you soon.
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    Jul 11, 2012, 11:50 PM
    Haha.. Yeah well my actual language is afrikaans..
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    Jul 19, 2012, 12:41 PM
    Need to get over my ex
    I can't get over my ex.. He was the first man I stayed together with... We had our own house all set up... Now its been almost a month since the break up, I'm back in my parent house now and so is he... :( I have been seeing other guys but can't be anything more than friends because my heart is with him.. We broke up because of something so stupid :( I spoke to him and now he says he's got some one else and they might get together.. What is the easiest way to forget about someone?
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    Jul 19, 2012, 01:06 PM
    Okay first I'm really sorry :( look I'm sure your awesome just need to forget about I had a friend that went through the same thing it took her one years but look you can give up on him you need to like go out with friends have fun always so that you can't think about it cmon you need to do this for yourself maybe you'll meet someone better ! Wait! Sorry not maybe you will ! :) for sure I promise maybe not just yet just keep up your good mood and it will help >email address removed< I know how it feels and it sucks :(
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