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    lisanoce Posts: 30, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 4, 2010, 06:29 AM
    I Messed Up And Now Heartbroken
    There is this guy that shown quite an interest in me even though we aren't close friends and flirted with me all the time when I was in the same room as him but I didn't flirt back with him because I was pretty shy and also wasn't sure if he had feelings for me. When I missed school, and told him the next day that I couldn't make it, he said "oh yeah...i missed you" and while he said it, he looked away and avoided eye contact. When we hugged each other the next day (our hugs are longer than usual), I whispered in his ear telling him I missed him then he looked at me a bit surprised and he said "Why?" and I just shook my shoulders and he stared at me and was like I missed you too. I was about to say the reason why is because I liked him but my shyness took over me once again as always. When I told him yeah I was just joking with him, he was like "Bull...you weren't joking" and he walked away. On the last day before the holidays, I decided to come to school and I greeted him. He thought I wasn't going to come. So he said."oh you missed me that much?" and I thought maybe I was annoying him and I just said "no i just wanted to see everyone...you missed me" and he replied saying "yeahhhh" in a sarcastic tone and walked away from me. And the rest of the day, he pretty much avoided me and pretended I didn't exist.

    A couple of days later, I messaged him on Facebook, telling him how he was doing and he responded saying "i miss you :(" at the end. I told him I missed him too. He ignored my message and a few days later, he changed his status to in a relationship. This may sound immature but I deleted him on fb for a week when I saw that. Then I thought that it was a stupid idea because I couldn't get him out of my head and so I added him back and he accepted me that same day. Maybe he thinks that I like him now? I'm not sure. I didn't message him and he didn't message me. I saw the new couple hugging at school, and when I looked at him, he stared right at me and didn't bother to turn away so I just pretended to do something else and I had to force myself to believe that it was over because of all the dumb mistakes I made. Why would he say he missed me when there was nothing between us and hardly knew each other? Why would he even botther to mention it? I thought that since he was a confident guy and had no problems flirting and talking with girls, he would ask me out. But he wouldn't talk to me. Every time I look at his Facebook picture, all my feelings for him come rushing back and I feel hurt. They would never break up because that girl is like his best friend.What should I do to forget about him? Thanks
    I forgot to say I don't see him anymore now since I moved schools so I live an hour away from him.
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    Jan 4, 2010, 07:36 AM
    You don't have to see him anymore-great-now stop checking him out on FB.stay focused on school and friends and leave the I miss you mess in the past.
    Good luck.
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    Jan 4, 2010, 07:44 AM

    Honestly? As Amicon said, you need to focus on school and not on this boy. How is it that you can just decide not to go to school? But, that's beside the point.

    Hold out for the guy that is as interested in pursuing a relationship with you than you are with him. Relationships are meant to be two-sided: the boy wants to be with the girl and the girl wants to be with the boy. Games should not be played with hearts.

    Your heart is a precious, amazing, worth-winning thing; this boy has missed the boat. Focus on school, not on the verbal game of tag that you're playing with this boy.

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