I don't think that about all men... just the players.


THEIR GAMES... an open letter and opinion piece

Dear Mr. Player,

I'm sure they call you "the man" in your clique, but in actuality you're an ***hole. When you see a young, innocent, and sensitive woman like myself, what really goes through your head? Am I easy? Am I your meal ticket? What am I to you? I attract you for whatever reason. You say all the right things, tell me what I want to hear, yeah you're a sweet talker, you have a way with words. Some may call you the modern day Shakespeare. You have charisma... a real charmer you are. But don't be mistaken, you are a pig. A nasty little oinker. People like you are like a sore that never heals... it just festers. You prey after the innocent and vunerable... what does that REALLY say about you? I never understood why you fellas feel as though you need to play mind games with women, especially the young and innocent ones. Ok, so a guy like you could say that a woman allowed them the opportunity to take advantage of them, but that is nonesense. You're sick. Do you play these games with your mother, your sister, your daughter, your aunt, your grandmother? Would you want a guy to play these games with the women (woman) you life? If you have answered I don't know, I don't care, I never thought about it or yes... then walk yourself to the nearest institution... reality check, you need help.

Let me give you a word of advice. Life is a b****, no pun intended, and the things you do to others will come back to haunt you. Karma has that funny way of catching up. Treat people the way you would want to be treated no matter how easy it may to take advantage of them. You are playing games with someone's daughter, mother, sister, aunt, cousin, niece, WHATEVER! It's not right. People like you suffer from self-esteem issues. You use games as a way to bring women down. Men like you are not man enough to stand behind a good woman. A good woman scares you so you do what you can to make things more comfortable for you by devaluing her self-worth!

What sick pleasure do you get out of leading a woman on and then disposing of us like trash? ***NEWS FLASH*** I am not trash, we are not trash, and should not be treated as such. I am a jewel, a princess, and a commodity that is so rare I should be treasured. If you valued anything in your life, Mr. Player, you would understand that concept. Instead, you're such an ignaramous, your mind is that of a peion. It's small. You are a small indivdiual who has small thoughts. People like you think you are so smart but in reality you will never experience true love. You don't know how to give love. What a terrible life you will live... always chasing for something you will never get. Why, because you are too busy playing women when in actuality you are only playing yourself.

I presume somebody played you...

And played hard.

I was... but I am expressing a point.

And your point being is that a lot (not all) of men are dirt bags.

You haven't found the right one yet.

Men are so much more different than women when it comes to sex. Men have to have it all. Women would be satisfied with just one. I have never met a guy (and I'm sure there are some) that had only one partner. I have met quit a few ladies who have.

I certainly hope that is not true. When I am in a committed relationship, I would hope is too!

Well of course it's not true for the whole world.

I just haven't met a guy that has had one partner.

I see... well why did you feel you needed to make the commet about "how hard" I was played?. is it that obvious?

I'm sorry if I offended you.

Yes it is obvious because you wrote nearly a whole novel on the 'player' topic :)

AND

Why would someone post something like this unless they weren't affected in some way.

Mmmm touché... no, I guess you didn't offend me but these feelings came back once this guys best friend contacted me last week, an update I guess. Old feelings came back to life...

Tell me what happened dear...

I'm not condoning this type of behavior at all... But there are always female players out there as well. It would be very easy for me to write up a topic of all the wronging that has occurred to myself or my friends from girls "playing" the guy. I understand your pain but please know we are not all like this :-) Some of us are actually good guys who look forward to relationships and not meaningless sex.

Second, in regards to the comment about a guy being with one girl. Same can be said about some women these days. I can count 4 guys I know that have only been with their girlfriend and that's it. But I also know of girls that made it a habit to see who they could sleep with. Each sex has their own set of flaws and each also has their share of players.

For the umpteenth time I said that I PERSONALLY haven't met a guy that has had one partner. I'm not speaking for all men. Just me!

Well I actually have another post Beautiful. It is called calculated or out of the blue. It is on page one of "relationships" That pretty much sums up everything. I left out some other VERY personal details. Do you mind reading it?

It doesn't sound like nothing more than he's happy for you.

Why would you want to go back to someone who used you?

I was just clarifying that there are some, please drop the attitude. And I never said anything about you singling people out, I was just pointing out that guys like do exist

I don't want to go back to someone who used me. I haven't heard from the person who used me... just his best friends. Although if my EX were to come around and say all the right things, who knows. Anyone could easily be loured back into a trap if the person they love knows exactly what to say. Do you think his best friend's happiness is REALLY all that genuine. If I could play the recording I would. It sounds like he doesn't believe I could have moved on "so quickly" since I was in very deep with his best friend... thoughts?

Don't be mean Rome :(

How can someone have an attitude through the internet?

Because you said 'in regards to the comment about a guy being with one girl... ' I accidentely took that as you were blaming me for something that I never said. BUT I read it wrong.

Sworry...

Okay so now your in it for the best friend? I'm lost!

Ps, Rome I would like to meet a guy that really wants me. I gave the guy everything. Maybe too much... I don't know... I thought being an open book was a good thing. No secrets... but then again mystery can be dangerous as well.

AmExp

Sorry you got played. Both genders do it. Move on, His loss.

Is AmExp ? Pregnant?