My wife who I love very much has male friends. That doesn't bother me. She texts' them and emails them, talks on the phone etc. She has been known to even go for lunch or dinner with them.

Recently she told me she want to go to the amusement park with him and my two kids. I told he that it seemed to be a bit too much. She also wanted to go "hang out" for a day with him or go over to his new apparement.

I lost it. And now she think Idon't trust her. Reality is I am not comfortable with my wife "hanging out" with another man. I find it to be in appropriate.

Am I a fool, jerk or just traditional.