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    deedsterv3 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 14, 2008, 09:04 PM
    Making her miss me
    So I'm past all the confusion... sad part is my ex had to tell me how things are. She has a new boyfriend and I'm not a wreck anymore. She tells me I'm not giving her anytime to miss her, I mean... how do I make her miss me?
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    Dec 14, 2008, 09:17 PM

    Uhmmm... don't have any contact with her? If she has a new boyfriend, why are you trying to get her to miss you? It sounds like one of you, or both is playing games with the other. You can't make anybody do anything! If she misses you she does, if she doesn't there is nothing you can do about it.
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    Dec 14, 2008, 09:17 PM

    Stay away from her, grass is always greener on the other side and all that.

    But honestly it sounds like this is just an excuse to get you to leave her alone.

    Sorry dude.
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    Dec 15, 2008, 06:15 AM

    No contact is a great tool for getting over someone. Everything we talk about on here is useful and has been proven to work. Please take our advice and leave this girl alone
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    Dec 15, 2008, 06:39 AM

    "Getting over someone" isn't a game. I'm so sorry that you're watching your ex find happiness with someone else and move on with her life, but don't stoop to the level of trying to play games with her heart. It will only leave you bitter and stunt your healing.

    It's time to wish her well and look to the future.
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    Dec 15, 2008, 06:56 AM

    Well, I guess it sucks now that you know, but I have been there done that. What is your excuse for not being happy? Who cares what she is doing in her life, it is HER business and not yours as to what goes on in her life. If you were busy getting your life together and finding happiness in things you wanted to do, none of this would matter. She doesn't matter anymore, and you do. Live with it and go find happiness in something other than false hope and mind games.
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    Dec 15, 2008, 08:39 AM

    Whether she misses you or not, get your own life that makes you happy, without her.

    If your happy, and leave her alone, eventually you'll find someone to share it with. Making someone miss you is beyond your control, and a complete waste of time and energy.

    There are so many better things to do, so accept she is gone.
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