Hi everybody,

I have this question that's hurting me so bad that I don't know what to do. I'm seeing this guy that lives with another woman but they live in separate rooms. I'm on the phone with him every night and he does provide for me. He's there for me whenever I need him. It's just that it has gotten to the point where I can't stand for him to live with her anymore or take her places. Whenever he's spending time with me she's always calling him, sometimes he leaves and sometimes he just ignore her phone calls. He says he has plans to move out and that he doesn't love her. He says that he loves me. Me and him have been together for over two years and he's been living with her for over 20 years. He say that the only reason he leaves when she call him sometimes is because she is crazy and she cut the tires on his vehicle and cut his clothes. The question is do you think that he's really serious about leaving her or that 20 years is a long time to be with someone and that he actually loves her. Or do you think that it is possible for him to be in love with me?