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    Dareheart Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 12, 2008, 03:05 AM
    Is it love? Or. Just an emotional affair?
    I been in a rocky relationship with a man for almost 5 years, and yet I am emotionally attached to another man. Who was my first love, Iv'e never been able to let go of him. I believe I am still in love with him. Even though he is presently married, his wife hates me because I am his first love, She tried to cut our conversations off for good. But, we have been secretly continuing to contact each other. He had admitted he still has feelings for me too. Is he my "SoUlMaTe"? Or are we just having an emotional affair!! :confused:
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    Jul 12, 2008, 03:16 AM
    He is married. Soulmate or not he has pledged his life to another woman. Start NC so you can start healing and find someone new who can be your everything.
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    Jul 12, 2008, 08:26 PM
    He is a no caring boob, who doesn't care for his wife or you. Why do you let him play with your head? That's not love but addiction, and it has consequences.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 01:08 PM
    She does not care for her self that other guy or her man its all mind games and she's bieng selfish on her part. I want my cake and eat it to.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 02:10 PM
    YOu want your cake and eat it too. A married man, someone else's husband, watch it or it will come back to bite you. How would you feel if someone did that to your husband and your were married.. Have some dignity and respect .
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    Jul 25, 2008, 02:49 PM
    I think if you separate yourself from this "first love" man, it will definitely give you a different perspective of what you really feel. In most cases though, the first love is a sneaky who makes you think you want something, when really you don't. And could you really be in a relationship with a man who would leave his wife for someone else, no matter if it's yourself.

    Just stay away from him. Things in life work out for the best and don't blow a chance with a guy who you sound really involved with for some prick
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    Jul 25, 2008, 03:25 PM
    He is married and he doesnt belong to you. Period.

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