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    Nov 24, 2009, 02:21 PM
    I love a girl but don't have any way to communicate.
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    Nov 24, 2009, 04:09 PM
    Send her a message on whatever site you are on asking her if she would like to chat sometime. Wait for the reply. If she says yes, then find out how she would like to chat. Online messenger, phone, email, etc...

    If she doesn't reply at all then you have your answer.
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    Nov 25, 2009, 12:14 AM
    Hi, smdk!

    Have you already spent time, in person with this girl, and why do you think that you don't have a way to communicate with her, please?

    Thanks!
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    Nov 25, 2009, 02:46 AM

    Yes I have spent time with her but that was a few years ago now she has a new set of friends as I said she has moved to some other part of town I cannot hve any way to talk to her...
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    Nov 25, 2009, 04:17 PM
    Hi again, smdk!

    Does she have a phone?

    Thanks!
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    Nov 26, 2009, 03:23 AM
    I asked her phone number she said no can't give you... I asked why she doesn't come online often she said its boring... now what do I do...

    Secondly the website is Facebook.
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    Nov 26, 2009, 04:37 AM
    Make new friends and move on.
    Leave this be as she seems to make it clear that she doesn't want to stay in touch. .
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    Nov 26, 2009, 05:31 AM

    If she doesn't want to give you her number, the word is aggravate, NOT communicate.

    Find someone else who actually likes you.
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    Nov 26, 2009, 08:56 AM

    Perhaps you are right...
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    Nov 26, 2009, 09:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smdk View Post
    i asked her phone number she said no can't give you...i asked why she doesnt come online often she said its boring...now what do i do...
    You got rejected twice already. Do you really need a third rejection from the same person?

    Make new friends. Find someone else who will feel the same way about you.
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    Nov 26, 2009, 09:50 AM

    Guess you are right...
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    Nov 26, 2009, 09:54 AM
    Rejection sucks, but remember, there are over 6 billion other people in this world. I'm sure you'll find someone who will feel the same way about you. Just keep meeting new people. You don't need to rush into a relationship until you found a good match.
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    Nov 26, 2009, 10:38 AM

    Yes but I never really told her I like her...
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    Nov 26, 2009, 10:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smdk View Post
    i asked her phone number she said no can't give you...i asked why she doesnt come online often she said its boring...now what do i do...
    Is this not enough of a rejection? Do you need her to come out and flat out tell you that she doesn't want to get to know you better?

    Quote Originally Posted by smdk View Post
    yes but i never really told her i like her...
    How much more rejection can you take? She won't even give you're her phone number. Do you really need to tell her that you have feelings for her too?
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    Nov 26, 2009, 11:05 AM

    Actually let me tell you our complete conversation... I first asked her number she didn't reply so I told her "atleast say no" well she's said no I asked when she usually comes online she said she usually doesn't come online I said why don't you come online do your parents not allow she said no she gets bored... thats it now please tell me what I did wrong...
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    Nov 26, 2009, 11:08 AM
    You didn't do anything wrong. She's just not interested in getting to know you better. It happens.

    That's why we said to find someone else who's willing to spend time to get to know you better.

    These things happen naturally. You can't force her to talk to you. It's her choice.
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    Nov 26, 2009, 11:12 AM

    Yeah I guess...
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    Nov 26, 2009, 04:20 PM
    Hi again, smdk!

    I've asked lots of women out and have been rejected many times.

    It happens... It's just a part of life when someone takes the risk of trying to get to know someone.

    A person can try, but a person can't be friends with everyone.

    Sometimes, that's a really hard lesson to learn.

    Thanks!
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    Dec 7, 2009, 04:24 AM

    OK I talked to her online today it seemed that she didn't even remember me... she was talking to me as though she was talking to a net friend... hmm she doesn't remember me maybe that's why she didn't give me her number before... so now what?
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    Dec 7, 2009, 09:15 AM
    Cant forget her.
    Threads merged

    There is a girl I love but I know that I can never be with her now I am trying to forget her but I just can't get her out of my head... what do I do?
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