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    Aug 10, 2010, 02:13 PM
    I love a boy and I am also a boy. But I am not a gay. What should I do?
    He is my very good friend and I really feel for him. I don't want to loose him nor I want to be gay with him. But I love him a lot.
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    Aug 10, 2010, 07:27 PM

    That's called being good friends, and you don't have to be ashamed of loving any one, gay or not. Just be careful how you express yourself, so you aren't misunderstood.

    That means think before you act, or speak.
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    Aug 10, 2010, 07:30 PM

    Being gay means you wish to have sex with someone of the same sex.

    Loving your friends closely is merely a normal emotion and has nothing to do with sex
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    Aug 10, 2010, 07:38 PM

    Be his friend and stick by him.
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    Aug 10, 2010, 07:41 PM

    I have been friends with my best friend for years now. I care about her deeply, and love her. Doesn't mean I am gay. It's good that you care for your friend. He's lucky to have a friend like you.
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    Aug 15, 2010, 12:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Thats called being good friends, and you don't have to be ashamed of loving any one, gay or not. Just be careful how you express yourself, so you aren't misunderstood.

    That means think before you act, or speak.
    :)
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    Aug 16, 2010, 02:45 AM
    Don't worry it doesn't mean you're gay. You have a feelings for him because he maybe a good boy and he's always doing a good things for you and that is called friend!
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    Mar 7, 2013, 07:02 PM
    Well dude. I am a girl. Not a lesbian girl. But I may be able to help you solve your problem. All you have to do is just act normal round him. Act as if he is just one of the guys. If you still have feelings for him, pull him aside one day and tell him that you need to help another friend (that he doesn't know) and tell him

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